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Cucumber Gin & Tonic & Roasted Asparagus with Shaved Parmesan: Hello, Spring

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Happy Friday, gang — and hello, spring! 🌿

Can we talk about how ready we are to move on from heavy winter food? Don’t get us wrong — we loved every cozy cocktail and warm, comforting bite this season. But something shifts in early March. The light changes, the air feels a little different, and suddenly all we want is something crisp, fresh, and green. And speaking of more light — don’t forget to spring your clocks forward this Sunday, March 8! Daylight saving time is here, which means longer evenings and more time to enjoy that golden hour on the porch. That’s exactly the energy we’re bringing this week.

Today’s pairing is simple, seasonal, and so satisfying. We’re making a Cucumber Gin & Tonic — cool, herbal, and ridiculously refreshing — alongside Roasted Asparagus with Shaved Parmesan, which might be one of the easiest and most elegant things you can put on a plate. It’s the kind of meal that says, “winter is behind us, and we’re not looking back.”

Cucumber Gin & Tonic 🥒

Another angle of the Cucumber Gin & Tonic setup with Hendrick's gin, Fever-Tree tonic, fresh cucumber and mint in a rocks glass, and a wooden muddler on the porch table

There’s a reason the gin and tonic is a classic — it’s clean, it’s bright, and it lets the botanicals do the talking. This version leans into spring with fresh cucumber and a little mint, and it’s the kind of drink that makes you want to sit on the porch and stay awhile.

Hendrick’s is our go-to here because it already has those beautiful cucumber and rose notes built right in, so you’re just amplifying what’s already there. Paired with Fever-Tree tonic (which has a lovely, not-too-sweet effervescence), this is a cocktail that tastes like it came from a really good bar — but it takes about two minutes to make at home.

Close-up of Beth pouring Fever-Tree tonic water into rocks glasses with cucumber and mint over ice, her coral sweater jacket and watch visible, Hendrick's gin bottle alongside

✨Beth’s Tips:

  • Don’t skip the muddle — even a light press makes a difference. You’ll taste the cucumber in every sip.
  • Use a good tonic. It’s half the drink, and it matters. Fever-Tree is our favorite for a reason.
  • If you want to make this extra pretty for a dinner party, use a vegetable peeler to make long cucumber ribbons and drape them inside the glass before adding ice.

Can I use a different gin?

You can, but Hendrick’s really is the star here — its cucumber and rose botanicals are what make this cocktail sing. If you swap in a London Dry like Tanqueray or Beefeater, the drink will be a bit more juniper-forward and less delicate. Still good, just a different vibe.

Can I make this without alcohol?

Absolutely. Skip the gin and use extra tonic water or a good sparkling water with the muddled cucumber and mint. Add a squeeze of lime and you’ve got a gorgeous spring mocktail.

Can I batch this for a party?

You can muddle the cucumber and mint in a pitcher and add the gin ahead of time, but hold off on the tonic until you’re ready to serve — you want those bubbles fresh. Pour over ice in individual glasses and top with tonic at the last minute.

What food pairs well with a Cucumber Gin & Tonic?

You’re looking at it! Roasted asparagus is a natural match, but this also pairs beautifully with grilled shrimp, a light salad, smoked salmon, or any spring vegetable dish.

Beth Djalali

Cucumber Gin & Tonic

A crisp, refreshing gin and tonic made with Hendrick's gin, Fever-Tree tonic water, muddled cucumber, and fresh mint. Cool, herbal, and effortlessly elegant — it's the taste of spring in a glass.
Makes: 2 Cocktails
Prep Time 5 minutes
Total Time 5 minutes

Ingredients:  

  • 4 oz Hendrick’s gin
  • 8 oz Fever-Tree tonic water
  • 6 –8 thin cucumber slices divided
  • 4 –6 fresh mint leaves
  • Ice
  • 2 cucumber wheels for garnish

Instructions: 

  • In each highball or rocks glass, add 3–4 cucumber slices and 2–3 mint leaves. Gently muddle just enough to release the oils and juice — you’re not making a paste, just waking everything up.
  • Fill each glass with ice.
  • Pour 2 oz of Hendrick’s gin over the ice in each glass.
  • Top each with 4 oz of Fever-Tree tonic water and stir gently.
  • Garnish with a cucumber wheel on the rim and serve immediately.

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Roasted Asparagus with Shaved Parmesan 🌿

Kelly placing shaved Parmesan over a platter of roasted asparagus in the kitchen, wearing a leopard print sweater, with a container of freshly shaved Parmesan and a pepper grinder on the butcher block counter

If there’s one vegetable that announces spring has arrived, it’s asparagus. And honestly, you don’t need to do much to it. A hot oven, good olive oil, and a shower of shaved Parmesan is all it takes to turn a bunch of asparagus into something that feels special.

We’re finishing ours with lemon zest for brightness and just a pinch of red pepper flakes for a little warmth — not spicy, just interesting. It’s the kind of side dish that looks like you fussed, but you really, really didn’t.

✨ Kelly’s Tips:

  • The thickness of your asparagus matters for timing. Thin spears will need closer to 10 minutes; thicker ones may need up to 18. You want tender with a little snap — not mushy.
  • Don’t crowd the pan. If the spears are piled on top of each other, they’ll steam instead of roast, and you’ll miss out on those gorgeous caramelized tips.
  • Shave the Parmesan while the asparagus is hot so it softens slightly on contact. So good.
  • This is equally delicious at room temperature, which makes it great for entertaining.

How do I know where to trim the asparagus?

Hold a spear at each end and bend it gently — it’ll snap naturally where the tough part meets the tender part. You can also just cut about an inch or two off the bottom. Either way works.

Can I use grated Parmesan instead of shaved?

You can, but the wide shavings are really what make this dish look and feel elegant. A vegetable peeler does the job perfectly — just run it along the edge of a block of Parm.

Can I grill the asparagus instead of roasting?

Yes! Toss with olive oil, salt, and pepper, then grill over medium-high heat for 3–4 minutes, turning once, until you get nice char marks. Add the lemon zest, red pepper flakes, Parmesan, and flaky salt after grilling.

What else can I serve this with?

This pairs with just about anything — grilled chicken, salmon, steak, pasta, or even just alongside some crusty bread and a good cheese plate. It’s a versatile side that works for a casual weeknight or a dinner party.

Can I prep this ahead of time?

You can trim and wash the asparagus a day ahead and store it in the fridge in a glass of water, like fresh flowers. The roasting and topping should be done just before serving for the best texture and flavor.

Kelly Djalali

Roasted Asparagus with Shaved Parmesan

Simple, elegant roasted asparagus finished with shaved Parmesan, lemon zest, red pepper flakes, a drizzle of olive oil, and flaky sea salt. It takes 20 minutes from start to finish and looks like you fussed — but you really didn't.
Makes: 4 Servings
Prep Time 5 minutes
Cook Time 15 minutes
Total Time 17 minutes

Ingredients:  

  • 1 ½ lbs asparagus woody ends trimmed
  • 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil plus more for finishing
  • Kosher salt and fresh cracked black pepper
  • Zest of 1 lemon
  • Pinch of red pepper flakes
  • Shaved Parmesan cheese use a vegetable peeler for nice wide shavings
  • Flaky sea salt for finishing

Instructions: 

  • Preheat your oven to 425°F and line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
  • Spread the asparagus in a single layer on the baking sheet. Drizzle with olive oil and season with kosher salt and pepper. Toss to coat, then arrange the spears so they’re not overlapping.
  • Roast for 12–15 minutes, until the asparagus is tender-crisp and the tips are just starting to get golden and slightly charred.
  • Transfer to a serving platter. Immediately scatter the lemon zest and red pepper flakes over the top.
  • Drizzle with a little more olive oil, then pile on generous shavings of Parmesan.
  • Finish with a sprinkle of flaky sea salt and serve warm.

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Oscar & Ollie: Hello, Spring 🐾 🌼

Ollie made her presence known this week — marching right up to the camera with those big, curious eyes and that expression that says, “I heard there was Parmesan, and I have thoughts.” She’s not technically part of the cooking crew, but she does like to make sure she’s not missing anything. We appreciate the supervision, Ollie. 

Close-up of Ollie the Maine Coon looking directly at the camera with wide, curious eyes and magnificent whiskers, standing on a marble surface
Beth sitting on the stone fireplace hearth in a pink sweater with Oscar the German Shepherd lying at her feet, both looking at the camera, a cozy fireside moment from the archives

And we’re sharing one of my favorite springtime photos of Oscar and me today (this one is from 2022) — a quiet moment by the fireplace, just the two of us. It’s the kind of picture that makes me smile and ache a little at the same time. He was always right there, right next to me, exactly where he wanted to be. We carry him with us in every Friday post, and that feels just right. 🐾

What We’re Wearing 🌷

Beth’s Early Spring Outfit

Beth wearing a coral Alice Walk Cotton Sweater Jacket over a pink and white striped crew tee, slim wide white denim, and colorblock espadrilles on the screened porch

There’s something about the first week of March — the light shifts, the air feels different — and suddenly you’re ready for brighter, lighter everything. I’m wearing my Alice Walk Cotton Sweater Jacket in this gorgeous coral with the matching Alice Walk Striped Crew Tee underneath. I love wearing this combo as a set because the jacket has that classic, polished feel with the chunky knit and gold buttons, but it’s cotton, so it’s perfect for this in-between weather.

Shop Beth’s Look

The Slim Wide White Denim gives the whole look a fresh, springy feel, and I finished it with my Colorblock Espadrilles — because nothing says “I’m done with boots for a while” quite like an espadrille. It’s cheerful, it’s easy, and it puts a little spring in my step. Pun fully intended.

Shop Beth’s Look

Full-length view of Beth in her coral sweater jacket and white denim, holding the jacket closed, with early spring greenery visible through the porch screens

Kelly’s Early Spring Outfit

Kelly wearing a leopard print short sleeve sweater, dark darted barrel leg jeans, a round buckle wide belt, and houndstooth Rothy's Daily Driver Loafers on the screened porch, hand on hip

I went with one of my year-round favorite prints today. My Leopard Print Short Sleeve Sweater is sold out, but here is a similar version from Chico’s. It’s one of those pieces I reach for when I want to add a fun element to an otherwise casual outfit. Cashmere is a lightweight knit that works perfectly for this transitional weather. I paired it with my favorite Darted Barrel Leg Jeans in a black wash, which I love for the relaxed shape and the way they balance out a fitted top. 

Shop Kelly’s Look

My Round Buckle Wide Belt adds a little definition at the waist, and I finished the look with my Rothy’s Double Bit Driver in a check print. Mixing leopard and check? Absolutely. When the prints are in the same tonal family, it works — and I’m here for the fun of it.

Shop Kelly’s Look

Full-length view of Kelly in her leopard sweater and dark barrel jeans, thumbs in pockets, smiling in the spring light on the porch

Catch Up with Fridays With Oscar

Revisit March 2025:

Cheers to Spring’s Arrival 🌸

Kelly and Beth holding Cucumber Gin & Tonics in rocks glasses with cucumber wheels, Kelly in her leopard print sweater and Beth in her coral sweater jacket on the screened porch

That’s our kind of Friday, gang — a cool drink in hand, something green and gorgeous on the plate, and the feeling that warmer, brighter days are finally on the way. We hope you’re feeling the shift too. Make yourselves a Cucumber G&T, roast up some asparagus, and toast to the season ahead. We’ll see you next week! With Love, Beth, Kelly, Ollie…and always, Oscar.

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  1. Lisa H

    Asparagus looks delicious! You both look great. I especially love the picture of you and Oscar, Beth.
    Makes me smile, but I know what you mean about the ache too. Looking forward to Spring and bright colors. 😊

  2. sherry Urich

    Like your sweater jacket Beth. Kelly I am going to try this recipe also. We like asparagus on the grill but the weather in Minnesota is up and down right now. Snow finally melted here where I live and hoping we get no more this season. Suppose to rain today and weather is to be in the high 50’s this week. Love pictures of you and Oscar and Ollie is a hoot!

  3. Diane

    LOL! Well I shoveled 8″ of snow yesterday so still wearing my winter sweaters.

  4. MaryLynne

    In Michigan, the only one in our family who will venture out on the porch is our Siberian cat Purrcy. But then he likes to roll in the snow. Spring is a long way off, but I can’t wait to try the cucumber g&t. That’s my favorite way to do asparagus for a crowd. I also add dill

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