Happy Friday, gang! There’s a specific moment every spring when you walk outside, feel the warmth on your face, and think: we are eating out here tonight. This week’s Fridays with Oscar is for that moment, especially when the pollen season is over!
We’re pouring a Hibiscus Margarita — made with blanco tequila, hibiscus syrup, fresh lime juice, and a salted rim — that is honestly one of the prettiest cocktails we’ve ever put on this blog. And we’re pairing it with Grilled Shrimp Tacos that have quickly become a warm-weather staple: chili-lime marinated shrimp, a bright and crunchy slaw, avocado crema, cotija cheese, and a squeeze of fresh lime all tucked into warm tortillas.
What You’ll Find in Today’s Post
🌺 Hibiscus Margarita
If you’ve never made a hibiscus margarita, this is the recipe that’s going to change your Friday nights. Hibiscus syrup — made by steeping dried hibiscus flowers in sugar and water — gives this cocktail its stunning deep pink color and a tart, floral flavor that is completely unlike anything else. Paired with blanco tequila, fresh lime juice, and a splash of triple sec, it’s a margarita that tastes as good as it looks. Which, given how gorgeous it is, is saying something.
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✨ Beth’s Tip:
The homemade hibiscus syrup is worth it when you have the time — but a quality store-bought version is a perfectly wonderful shortcut. Look for one with hibiscus listed as a real ingredient, not just “natural flavors,” and you’ll get that stunning deep red color and floral flavor in every glass.
FAQS – Hibiscus Margarita
Most well-stocked grocery stores carry them in the Latin foods or tea aisle — look for “flor de jamaica.” Whole Foods, international markets, and online retailers are also reliable sources.
Yes! Several brands make a quality hibiscus syrup that works beautifully here. The homemade version is easy and worth it if you have the time, but a good store-bought syrup is a perfectly fine shortcut.
Absolutely. Make the syrup ahead of time and scale up the margarita ingredients proportionally. Combine everything except the ice in a pitcher, refrigerate, and shake or stir individual servings over ice when ready to pour.
A good blanco tequila is ideal here — its clean, bright flavor lets the hibiscus and lime shine. Espolòn, Olmeca Altos, and Casamigos Blanco are all excellent choices at different price points.
Yes! Replace the tequila and triple sec with sparkling water or a non-alcoholic tequila alternative. The hibiscus syrup and lime juice carry so much flavor that the mocktail version is genuinely delicious.
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Hibiscus Margarita
Ingredients:
For the Hibiscus Syrup (makes enough for several rounds)
- ½ cup dried hibiscus flowers
- 1 cup water
- 1 cup sugar
For the Margarita
- 4 oz blanco tequila
- 2 oz hibiscus syrup
- 2 oz fresh lime juice
- 1 oz triple sec or Cointreau
- Ice
- Coarse salt for the rim
- 2 lime wheels for garnish
Instructions:
Make the hibiscus syrup:
- Combine the dried hibiscus flowers, water, and sugar in a small saucepan over medium heat. Stir until the sugar dissolves, then bring to a gentle simmer.
- Remove from heat and let steep for 15 minutes. Strain through a fine mesh sieve and let cool completely. Store in the refrigerator for up to two weeks.
Make the margaritas:
- Run a lime wedge around the rim of two glasses and dip in coarse salt. Fill with ice and set aside.
- In a cocktail shaker filled with ice, combine the tequila, hibiscus syrup, lime juice, and triple sec. Shake vigorously for 15–20 seconds.
- Strain into the prepared glasses over ice. Garnish each with a lime wheel and serve immediately.
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🌮 Grilled Shrimp Tacos
These are the tacos you make once and then spend the rest of the season looking for excuses to make again. The shrimp get a quick chili-lime marinade that adds just enough heat and brightness without overwhelming the flavor, then hit a hot grill for just a few minutes. The avocado crema is creamy and rich, the slaw is crisp and tangy, and cotija cheese ties everything together. Warm tortillas, all the fresh toppings, a squeeze of lime — this is patio season food at its absolute best.
FAQS – Grilled Shrimp Tacos
Absolutely — this is exactly what I did, a cast-iron grill pan works beautifully here. Get it very hot before adding the shrimp, and you’ll get a lovely char without ever stepping outside.
Yes! Just thaw completely and pat very dry before marinating. Excess moisture is the enemy of a good sear — dry shrimp means better char and better flavor.
Shrimp cook fast — 2 to 3 minutes per side is all they need. Watch for them to turn pink and curl into a loose C shape. An O shape means overcooked, so pull them right when they hit that C.
Yes, with one tip: press plastic wrap directly against the surface of the crema before refrigerating to prevent browning. It will keep well for up to a day.
Feta is the closest substitute — it has a similar salty, crumbly quality. Queso fresco is another great option if you can find it.
We love corn tortillas for their flavor and texture, but flour tortillas work too. Whatever you prefer — just make sure to warm them before serving so they’re pliable and delicious.
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Grilled Shrimp Tacos
Ingredients:
For the Shrimp:
- 1½ lbs large shrimp peeled and deveined
- 2 tbsp olive oil
- 2 cloves garlic minced
- 1 tsp chili powder
- 1 tsp cumin
- ½ tsp smoked paprika
- ¼ tsp cayenne pepper optional
- Zest and juice of 1 lime
- ½ tsp kosher salt
For the Avocado Crema:
- 2 ripe avocados
- ¼ cup sour cream
- Juice of 1 lime
- ¼ tsp garlic powder
- ½ tsp kosher salt
- 2 –3 tbsp water to thin
For the Slaw:
- 2 cups shredded cabbage green, purple, or a mix
- 2 tbsp fresh cilantro roughly chopped
- Juice of 1 lime
- 1 tbsp olive oil
- Pinch of salt and sugar
For Serving:
- 8 –10 small corn tortillas warmed
- Cotija cheese crumbled
- Fresh cilantro
- Lime wedges
- Pico de gallo or salsa optional
Instructions:
- Marinate the shrimp: In a large bowl, whisk together the olive oil, garlic, chili powder, cumin, smoked paprika, cayenne (if using), lime zest and juice, and salt. Add the shrimp and toss to coat. Marinate for 15–20 minutes — no longer, as the lime juice will begin to "cook" the shrimp.
- Make the avocado crema: 2. Blend or mash together the avocados, sour cream, lime juice, garlic powder, and salt until smooth and creamy. Add water one tablespoon at a time until you reach a drizzleable consistency. Taste and adjust seasoning. Refrigerate until ready to serve.
- Make the slaw: 3. Toss the shredded cabbage and cilantro with lime juice, olive oil, and a pinch of salt and sugar. Let sit for at least 10 minutes to soften slightly and allow the flavors to meld.
- Grill the shrimp: 4. Preheat your grill or grill pan to medium-high heat. Thread the shrimp onto skewers or grill in a grill basket. Cook for 2–3 minutes per side, until pink, lightly charred, and cooked through. Remove from heat.
- Assemble the tacos: 5. Warm the corn tortillas on the grill for 30 seconds per side. Layer with slaw, shrimp, a generous drizzle of avocado crema, crumbled cotija, and fresh cilantro. Serve immediately with lime wedges alongside.
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🐾 Oscar and Ollie
Ollie has claimed the dining room table as her official throne, and frankly, we’ve stopped arguing about it. She sits there with the kind of composed, imperious dignity that only a Maine Coon can pull off — tail curled just so, green eyes surveying the room, entirely unbothered by the fact that dinner is supposed to happen at that table. She is the table now. We’ve accepted it.
We’re also sharing this beautiful photo of Oscar and Beth from 2022 — the two of them together on the porch on a warm summer evening, Oscar leaning into her the way he always did, happy just to be wherever she was. That was always his greatest talent: making wherever he was feel like exactly the right place to be. We miss him every Friday. 🐾
Early Spring Style
Beth’s Outfit
A denim shirtdress is one of those wardrobe classics that never needs an introduction — it just shows up, does the work, and looks great doing it. This deep indigo version is the ideal spring-into-summer piece: structured enough to feel polished, relaxed enough for a Friday night on the porch. The dark brown suede belt is the detail that makes the whole look — it cinches the waist and adds a warm, earthy contrast to the cool denim that feels completely intentional.
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Woven ballet flats tie it all together, and they’re the perfect early spring touch!
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Kelly’s Outfit
Light and dark, denim-on-denim, done beautifully. The Étienne Cropped Chambray Top in a soft, faded wash is airy and relaxed — the kind of top that looks equally good for a casual dinner or thrown on for a Saturday errand run. Paired with the Derry Illusion Denim Pants in black, the contrast between the light top and dark bottom is crisp and clean, and very spring!
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Arizona EVA Essentials Birkenstocks keep things casual and comfortable, because patio season calls for footwear you can actually enjoy yourself in. Easy, and cool!
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Want More Spring Inspiration from Fridays with Oscar?
- Elderflower Collins & Sugar Snap Peas with Sesame and Ginger
- Aperol Spritz & Sheet Pan Lemon Herb Chicken
- Stawberry Basil Smash & Spring Pea Pasta: Hello Spring!
Cheers to Spring Evenings on the Porch!
I hope you have a wonderful weekend! Until next Friday, ladies — pour yourself something pink and pretty, and get outside. Patio season is here, and we intend to make the most of every single Friday of it.
Cheers! 🌺 Beth, Kelly, Ollie…and always, Oscar
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