Weekend Notes
Happy Friday, Gang! Can you believe we’ve reached the last Friday in September? You know what that means. Pumpkin season is officially upon us! It’s time to gather our pumpkins, spruce up the porch, and embrace all things fall. Pumpkin spice lattes, pumpkin bread, pumpkin muffins, pumpkin pancakes, and maybe even a pumpkin cocktail or two. Why not? I’m ready for cozy sweaters, crisp mornings, football Saturdays, and pumpkins of every shape, size, and color spilling down the front steps. Add a few mums, a festive wreath, and a lantern or two, and we’re officially in business. A little autumn zhuzhing goes a long way! If you missed our Amazon Finds Fall Porch Edition, there’s still plenty of time to scoop up a goodie or two and give your front porch a seasonal refresh.
What a week it’s been! I headed to Mah Jong, sweated through a session with my personal trainer, and — the real headline — welcomed granddaughter number three! Mom and daughter are doing well! Dad, too!
And then, just to keep things interesting, my dating life delivered another plot twist. I recently met a gentleman on Match, and after a lovely lunch last week, he was quite enthusiastic about seeing me again. In fact, we scheduled date number two while I was headed to Chicago. Unfortunately, my flight home was delayed on Sunday, so we rescheduled for Thursday evening. All systems go. Or so I thought.
Turns out, he met someone shortly after our lunch, and despite the relationship being long-distance, he feels compelled to explore it because they’re “so much alike.” Fair enough. But here’s the kicker. He’d still like to keep my number because, apparently, life is full of twists and turns.
No thank you, sir! I’m not auditioning for the role of understudy in anyone’s romantic comedy. Ladies, you can’t make this shit up! Phew.
I can’t tell you how happy I am to usher in the weekend, so pour yourself something nice. I’m sharing three easy weekend outfits for women over 50 below, plus the beauty, home, and jewelry picks I’m loving, and a few sales worth your time.
ICYMI: How I’m Wearing Leopard This Fall · The Tuesday Edit: Must-Have Blazers for Fall · Waiting for Fall (and a Few Other Things)
Key Takeaways
- Three easy weekend outfits: a cropped denim shirt with white jeans, a Spanx pintuck matching set for a night on the couch, and a faux suede shirt dress over a striped tee.
- Suede loafers carry two of the three looks — they work just as well with white jeans as they do with a shirt dress.
- Also this week: beauty, home and jewelry picks, fall sales at Talbots, Gap and Boden, and three reader discount codes.
What Are Easy Weekend Outfits for Women Over 50?
The easiest weekend outfits for women over 50 are built from two or three pieces that already work together: a denim shirt with white jeans, a matching set, or a shirt dress with a tee underneath. Add a pair of suede loafers, and you’re out the door in minutes. Keep the colors close — mine this week are denim, white, camel, and brown — so the shoes and bag can move from one look to the next.
Easy Weekend Outfit: Cropped Denim Shirt and White Jeans
What I’m wearing: Boxy Cropped Denim Shirt (also in white) · White Jeans · Suede Loafers
How cute is this boxy cropped denim shirt? It also comes in white. Paired with white jeans and suede loafers, it’s the perfect outfit to usher in the weekend. The cropped length hits right at the waist of high-rise jeans, so there’s nothing to tuck in, and the suede is what makes white jeans feel like fall.
- Outfit formula: cropped denim shirt + white jeans + suede loafer + gold earrings.
Couch Night Outfit: A Spanx Matching Set
What I’m wearing: Spanx Pintuck Track Jacket · Spanx Pintuck Wide Leg Pants
If you’re inclined to veg out on the couch, may I suggest a comfy matching set from Spanx? The pintuck track jacket and wide leg pants have pintucks running down the sleeves and legs, which is what makes a lounge set look put together. Add popcorn and a glass of wine, and you’re set for a TV marathon.
- Outfit formula: zip track jacket + matching wide-leg pants + stud earrings + popcorn and a glass of wine.
One More Easy Weekend Outfit: The Faux Suede Shirt Dress
What I’m wearing: Faux Suede Dress · Striped Tee · Suede Loafers · Burberry Tote
Or one more easy weekend outfit if you’re headed out the door: a faux suede dress over a striped tee with suede loafers. The stripe peeking out at the collar keeps the camel from feeling too serious, and the gold buttons do the job a necklace would. The Burberry tote pulls the brown, cream, and black together — it’s the same bag I carried in What I’m Wearing Now and to Chicago last weekend.
- Outfit formula: faux suede shirt dress + striped tee underneath + suede loafer + gold hoops + check tote.
Beth’s Style Tip: Let one shoe and one bag do the heavy lifting. Suede loafers and a check tote work with denim, white jeans, and camel, so the weekend takes care of itself.
Beauty I’m Using This Week
- Clé de Peau Concealer — A splurge, but a little goes a long way, and the creamy formula doesn’t settle into lines under the eyes.
- Dior Eyeshadow — Soft, wearable shades that add a little definition to the eyes.
- Dior Addict Lip Glow Balm — Part balm, part color. It keeps lips from drying out as the weather turns and gives just enough tint for running errands.
- Jo Malone Travel Cologne — A travel-size that tucks right into a handbag.
- NARS Notorious Mascara — Back again from last week. It comes in Starstruck black and Infamous brown.
- Summer Fridays Exfoliating Pads — Another repeat from my Chicago travel skincare. Pre-soaked pads make exfoliating the easiest step in the routine.
Home Finds
A few small pieces that freshen a room without a full redo. Put the tray, the vase, and the lemons together, and you have a finished vignette for the console or coffee table.
- Scalloped Picture Frame — The scalloped edge makes even a quick snapshot look special. I think this would be lovely with a new baby photo (ahem).
- Square Tray — A tray corrals the little things on a coffee table or ottoman, and suddenly the clutter looks styled.
- Faux Lemons — A bowl of lemons is one of the easiest decorating tricks there is, and these never go soft.
- Ceramic Vase — A simple shape that works on a shelf on its own or filled with stems.
- Eucalyptus Plant — Pair it with the vase for greenery that looks right in every season.
- Marble Storage Jar — Pretty enough to leave out. Use it for cotton balls on the vanity or tea bags in the kitchen.
Jewelry I’m Reaching For
- Umbria Earrings — Easy to wear with a striped tee or a crewneck sweater.
- Resin Bangle — Resin adds a touch of color and texture to the wrist. Wear it alone or stack it with your gold bangles and watch.
- Mixed Media Necklace — Mixing materials keeps a necklace from feeling too matchy. Lovely over a sweater as the weather cools.
- Layla Necklace — An easy necklace for a button-down or a knit.
- Black and Onyx Pearl Earrings — A modern take on the classic pearl earring, and perfect for fall’s darker palette.
A Few Sales
- Talbots — 40% off one item and 30% off everything else. Save the 40% for the piece you’ve been eyeing.
- Gap — The Fall Sales Event is 50% off your purchase. A good time to stock up on denim, tees and fall layers.
- Boden — Up to 50% off. Start with the knits and the prints.
A Few Discounts
- Laundry Sauce — code BETH_D15. Laundry pods that make a chore smell a whole lot nicer.
- Rodan + Fields — code BETHD25. If last week’s REDEFINE Regimen caught your eye, this is your chance to try it.
- DermaFlash — code bethstyle. At-home dermaplaning, so makeup goes on smoother.
Amazon Goodies
In case you missed them, the last two Amazon posts are here: Kitchen Helpers: 10 Amazon Finds and Fall Amazon Porch Finds: 10 Cozy Front Door Picks.
Your Top Five This Week
Every Friday I take a peek at what you’ve been adding to your carts, and every week you have me taking notes. Here are your five favorites, in countdown order. No names and no hints — you’ll have to click.
Five · Four · Three · Two · One
What’s Good?
What are you reading, watching, or cooking right now? And how are you decorating the porch for fall? Tell me in the comments.
Closing Thoughts
Some weeks hand you a new granddaughter and a plot twist within days of each other, and all you can do is laugh, pour a glass of wine, and put on something easy. Life really is full of twists and turns — some of them are the best thing that’s ever happened to you, and some of them make a very good story for Friday. Either way, the pumpkins are going on the porch.
Style has no expiration date — and neither do you.
Frequently Asked Questions
A denim shirt with white jeans, a matching knit set, or a shirt dress with a tee underneath. Finish with suede loafers and you’re done in minutes.
Absolutely. Pair them with fall textures — denim, suede or a camel knit — instead of summer sandals.
Layer a striped tee underneath so the stripe shows at the collar, then add loafers and gold earrings. Swap the tee for a turtleneck as the weather cools.
Yes. One color from shoulder to hem creates a long line, and details like pintucks make the set look intentional.
Suede loafers. They’re comfortable enough for errands, polished enough for lunch, and work with jeans and dresses alike.
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Which of the three would you wear first — the denim, the couch set or the suede dress? Tell me in the comments.
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Beth, Can’t believe the jerk treated you that way. You’re much too good for him, he certainly isn’t worth your time. I’m glad you’re moving on.
Sorry you had that experience.
I decided to get back into dating this year. We met online, good banter and he planned a nice safe first date. At the end of the date he told me that he still hooks up with his ex girlfriend because she is a freak in the sheets. Well good luck with that sir. Good bye.
Congratulations Beth on your brand new granddaughter!!
Just fabulous !! Wishing you a very happy weekend xo
Love this post! Good for you for setting that boundary. Your only role is LEADING LADY! Congratulations on the second grandbaby–more love to give!
I was stunned that you said “s—-“ when telling about your dating experience. And, disappointed.
Every now and then, a 4 letter word truly describes a situation. When you hear it from someone you never do, trust that there’s more “you couldn’t make this up” than they’re telling. You read that it was one date, right? Hot and heavy and then 24 hours later perusing true love with someone else he hasn’t even met yet that is long distance? That’s coo-coo for coco puffs! She dodged a bullet!
The date guy–not worth your time.
Re dating: So happy you turned away the dude who wanted to keep your number just in case. I love your sentiment – you can’t make this stuff up. Have a wonderful weekend, you are gem and are the driver of your destiny. Cheers.
Beth, I have been reading your blog for years! I have seen your family grow and change and I love how you still show up for us, your readers and friends. I confess, this is one of my first times posting a comment. I guess I feel like don’t have anything earth shattering to say, except I just adore you! The right man is definitely worth the wait! You will find him. It’s so nice to hear about your real life experiences, too! I love to read about all of it. Thank for being so relatable in addition to being so fashionable!
Many of the men I met online were often thinking – maybe the next one is better. Maybe they just think there are so many women looking that they can keep looking around for the. next one. Like you – I am not second best for anyone. I did meet my current husband online, but online dating is not easy, as you know. We should always be number 1!
I am all about the pumpkin! 🎃 I am reading The Frozen River. It’s historical fiction, with a female protagonist that I think the Grit and Glam girls might really like.
Thanks for sharing with us.
Thank you for the laugh! I loved your dating story. And congratulations on another granddaughter. Have a great weekend.
Congratulations on the new granddaughter! All I can say about the gentleman is his loss! Have a great weekend.
GOOD FOR YOU, Beth!!
You have too much CLASS to have some man keep you on the hook!!
Congratulations on the birth of your third granddaughter! So glad that everyone is doing well. Including your son! Ha, ha!
I love your bog & your YouTube videos SO MUCH! They give me wonderful fashion ideas.
Hope you get some cool weather soon. We’re roasting in Houston, too!
I choice the denim outfit. Good for your climate, but not or spring. Lovely seeing the seasons in reverse.
Tell that guy to take a hike!! The nerve!! Congrats on granddaughter #3! It’s still in the high 90’s here so it’s white jeans and denim shirt for me. Can you possibly add the size you are wearing when garments are featured? I am approximately your size and shape and it would help.
Tread carefully in online dating venues. Rejoice that this guy showed his stripes before you got too involved with him.
His loss! 🙂
Celebrate You!
I hate when men act like they can keep you on the back burner just in case…Congratulations on the new granddaughter! Glad you’re close enough to enjoy her!
Dear Beth,
Good for you for learning Mah Jong, I have heard it’s so good for the mind. It’s not easy to learn. So good you are back going to your weight trainer.
This dude sound like he wants his cake his ice cream AND just in case his new lady does not work out I might come back to you. Oh Beth, the dating game is so much energy. You
are a class act. I get your response. Enjoy your wine and some healthy popcorn. Kick this dude to the curb.
Yippee a blessed little one to the family.
You made me laugh out loud about not making this s..t up regarding the 2nd date. Love your site.
Congratulations on your new little granddaughter. You are blessed. The date man is not! lol. Keep going Beth! So many wonderful things going on in your life.
Congratulations on the new granddaughter.
Phew you escaped a mistake. His loss you’re deserving of a real gentleman!
Re: new addition Oh Beth congratulations (and to your family as well)!
Re:date what a dick 👀can I say that I think I just did 😬! Love you so much Beth! Although,I don’t comment much, I read every word you write 💕
Beth, you are beautiful, you are strong! We didn’t come this far to settle for or force a relationship.
My pumpkins are shining in the rain this morning. Happy fall!
Congratulations on your new granddaughter. What did they name her? Good for you on kicking the guy to the curb. What nerve some men have. I tried on line dating after my husband died. Didn’t work out for me, but I did meet my husband now in the grocery store where I was I was working part-time to supplement my income. We have now been married 8 years. Hang in there. There is someone out there for you. My grandmother used to say there was a lid for every pot. lol
Congrats on the new grandchild.
Your dating story is insane. Your response was perfect. Work it into your next novel!
Oh Girl, I knew that guy hit a nerve when I read your: can’t make this **** up! I’m 100% behind you on the “understudy” role! And, for the life of me, I can’t understand how he could be anything but smitten with you! A beautiful & confident lady!
As for favorite: yes, I LOVE Jo Malone!
So this guy thought you would be desperate enough to be a back up date. That is hilarious!!!! Thank goodness you only wasted 1 date on him.
Congratulations on the new granddaughter!! Glad everyone is doing fine. With only sons you have another girl to spoil. Enjoy every minute!!
And i would pick the denim outfit!! Have a good weekend!
Beth, you are a classy lady, not for all your style etc. it is a given with you but your character just shines. Like what you concluded about your date and am sure Mr. Style is looking down on you and saying “way to go Beth!” Better days are ahead!
Hello Beth
Greetings from Middle England!
Well, you had a lucky escape there with your fickle male friend, didn’t you? At least he was honest, but what a creep! Still, his loss, but certainly not yours. I do hope you wrote him a crisp riposte before sending him off into the ether.
Congratulations on your new granddaughter; it’ll be double the fun now when you visit.
Loved your photos of Chicago. It’s several years now since I sat in a sky-scraper restaurant overlooking that city, but I remember it well. Unlike you I am not a fan of flying but could sit in an airport all day just people-watching.
Autumn, my favourite season, is definitely in the air over here. It’s not always as brilliant as American foliage can be, but it’s still magnificent in its own, special British way and I can’t wait to see this year’s colours show themselves.
Happy Fall, Everyone!