This is the hardest Fridays with Oscar I’ve ever had to write.
For years, this column has been a place of joy—sharing Oscar’s antics, his photobombs, his gentle soul with all of you. Today, it becomes something different. Today, it’s a love letter. A thank you. A goodbye.
My sweet Oscar crossed the rainbow bridge, peacefully at home, surrounded by the family who adored him. He left this world the same way he lived in it—with grace, with dignity, and wrapped in love.
The Beginning
I’ll never forget the day we brought Oscar home. At just 12 weeks old, he was all oversized paws and floppy ears, with eyes that seemed to hold wisdom far beyond his puppy years. We snapped his first photo and posted it to Instagram, never imagining what would unfold.
You fell in love with him immediately. The comments poured in. Who was this adorable German Shepherd puppy? Would we be sharing more of him? Could you see him again?
And so began a beautiful journey—one that would transform not just my social media, but my entire life.
How Oscar Changed Everything
When I started Style at a Certain Age, it was a fashion blog. Simple as that. Outfit ideas, style tips, and inspiration for women over 50 who refused to disappear into beige invisibility.
But Oscar had other plans.
He started appearing in the background of outfit photos. Then he’d wander into frame during filming. Before long, readers weren’t just asking about my jacket or my boots—they wanted to know about the handsome German Shepherd stealing the show.
So the blog evolved. Fridays with Oscar was born. And suddenly, this space became about more than just clothes. It became about life—the full, rich, sometimes messy life we live at this age. Oscar opened the door to sharing recipes and cocktails, to introducing you to Ollie (my Maine Coon who tolerates all of us with regal indifference), to making this community feel more like family.
Oscar reminded me that style isn’t just what you wear. It’s how you live. And he lived beautifully.
The Years After Mr. Style
Some of you have been with me long enough to remember 2019—the year my world shattered when I lost my beloved husband, Mr. Style.
Grief is a strange and lonely landscape. In those early days, I wasn’t sure how I would navigate it. The house felt too quiet. The evenings stretched too long. The future seemed impossibly empty.
But Oscar was there.
He seemed to understand, in that profound way dogs do, that something had fundamentally changed. He stayed closer. He rested his head on my lap during the moments when the sadness felt overwhelming. He’d nudge me to get up, to go outside, to keep moving when all I wanted to do was disappear.
Oscar became my anchor. My reason to get out of bed on the hard mornings. My companion during late-night writing sessions when sleep wouldn’t come. My protector, my comfort, my constant.
I’ve heard it said that dogs are angels with fur. I believe that now more than ever. Oscar was sent to me for a reason, and he fulfilled that purpose with every fiber of his being.
The Moments I’ll Treasure
There are so many memories, I hardly know where to begin.
The way he’d “talk” to me with those distinctive German Shepherd vocalizations—not quite barks, not quite howls, but something in between that always made me laugh.
His unwavering devotion to his spot on the sofa—the one he claimed in puppyhood and never gave up. And the guest room that was, in truth, Oscar’s room. He’d sit on the bed like a sentry, watching the window and making it very clear to those pesky deer—and anyone else wandering by—that they were trespassing in his kingdom.
The endless patience he showed when I’d ask him to pose “just one more time” for a photo, even when his expression clearly said he’d rather be doing literally anything else.
His gentle friendship with Ollie, who pretended to be annoyed by Oscar’s presence but would often curl up nearby, close enough to feel his warmth.
The way his tail would wag with his whole body whenever I came home, even if I’d only been gone for ten minutes. To Oscar, every reunion was cause for celebration.
And those eyes. Those soulful, knowing, infinitely loving eyes that could communicate more than words ever could.
To My Community
I want to thank each and every one of you who loved Oscar alongside me.
Thank you for your comments asking about him. Thank you for sharing stories of your own beloved pets. Thank you for understanding that sometimes, the best content isn’t perfectly curated—it’s real and messy and includes a German Shepherd’s nose in the corner of the frame.
You made Oscar a star, and more importantly, you made him feel loved by people he’d never even met. I read your comments to him, you know. I’d scroll through and tell him, “Look, Oscar, Sharon from Ohio says you’re the most handsome boy she’s ever seen.” And his tail would wag, because I think somehow he knew.
This community has carried me through so many seasons. You celebrated with me. You grieved with me when I lost Mr. Style. And now, I know you’ll grieve with me again.
That’s what family does.
What Comes Next
I won’t pretend to know exactly what Fridays with Oscar looks like going forward. What I do know is this: it will remain a place for the things we’ve always loved—recipes, cocktails, and the cozy rituals that make a house feel like home. And we’ll keep the name. It’s too meaningful to abandon, and it will always be in honor of him.
The shape of it may change. Maybe it becomes a space that weaves in a bit more about the pets who bring so much joy to our lives. Maybe it becomes a gentle way to honor Oscar’s memory alongside the everyday moments that keep us going. Maybe it evolves into something I can’t yet imagine. Grief has a way of rearranging the furniture in your heart—whether you asked it to or not.
Right now, I’m taking it one day at a time. Ollie is staying closer than usual, and I think she knows something is different. The house is quieter. Oscar’s favorite spot on the sofa is still empty, and I can’t bring myself to sit there yet. Ollie has been sleeping on his bed beside my desk, like she’s keeping watch. Animals are so incredibly intuitive.
But I’m okay. Sad, yes. Heartbroken, absolutely. But okay.
Because here’s what I know for certain: I was lucky. So incredibly lucky to have been chosen by Oscar. Eleven years of unconditional love, unwavering loyalty, and the kind of companionship that makes life infinitely richer.
Not everyone gets that. I did. And I will be grateful for it every single day for the rest of my life.
Until We Meet Again
Even as his body was failing him, Oscar stayed valiant. He still raced to the front door like nothing had changed—still tried to fly down the stairs on pure willpower alone, until his hind legs betrayed him. Then he’d head to the laundry room, straight to the treat stash, like a man keeping the important rituals intact.
And somehow, his last day was filled with joy. Pax came over to play. Jess snapped photos. The sun showed up like it understood the assignment. Oscar sat on his hill and surveyed his land—calm, proud, and completely himself.
That’s the picture I’m keeping.
Oscar, my sweet, beautiful, noble boy.
Thank you for the morning snuggles and the evening walks. Thank you for making me laugh on days when laughter felt impossible. Thank you for being exactly what I needed, exactly when I needed it.
Thank you for showing me that love doesn’t require words. That loyalty is shown through presence. That the simplest moments—a head on a lap, a tail wagging at the door—are often the most profound.
You were my best friend. My confidant. My furry soulmate.
I will carry you in my heart forever. And one day, when it’s my turn to leave this earth, I know you’ll be there waiting along with Mr. Style—tail wagging, whole body wiggling with joy—ready for our next walk together.
Until then, rest easy, sweet Oscar. You were the very best boy. And my best friend.
All my love, always, Beth
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Dear Beth,
Sending love and hugs from Cincinnati, on the loss of your beautiful friend. I truly believe that loss of a pet, is one human experience that doesn’t get easier, no matter how many times we’ve experienced it. Ollie was beautiful and I thank you for sharing him with us.
I’m so sorry for your loss it is hard to lose a furry friend.
Dear Beth, I am so sorry for your loss. Your Fridays with Oscar was my favorite read! I loved how he “smiled” for the camera and stole our hearts. Thank you for sharing Oscar with us. I will miss him very much.
Weeping………… yes, dogs are angels with fur. Sending love your way.
Beth, I’ve followed you and Oscar for years. Even though this time has come for Oscar, I’m so glad you had each other. I have my latest pack of mini doxies on my lap and my life is better because of them. They keep me busy and happy. Rest well knowing you were the best dog mama that ever was.
Beth, I’m sorry to hear about your sweet pup, Oscar. I’ve enjoyed his Friday photos. We still miss our little shih-tzu, Max, but always remember what a good buddy he was to us!
So sorry for your loss 🫶
Dear Beth
I have just read your apt tribute to your dear Oscar – shedding tears. I so get it & feel for you. They are our loyal companions – there are no more words to say.
Thinking of you.
What a beautiful boy. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your beautiful memories.
Oh Beth, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I don’t often comment, but always looked forward to Friday’s with Oscar. Losing a beloved pet and member of the family is so very hard. I myself am on the verge of losing one of our beautiful fur babies, and just the thought of losing her is heart breaking. I wish for you only the best memories that bring joy within your sadness at his loss.
Beth, I am so saddened to hear of the loss of Oscar. It was so sweet of you to share your fur baby with us all these years. Thank you for that.
You were both lucky to have each other.
Sending you peace and comfort.
Thank you again for sharing him with us.
Oh Beth, I am heartbroken for you at the news of Oscar’s passing. I do not have a dog or a pet, but I came to “know” Oscar and his personality through you and the Fridays With Oscar posts. All of your reader family will miss him and share in the loss of your good buddy. Hang in there.
My heart goes out to you with Oscar’s passing. What a beautiful tribute to him. As a fellow dog lover and owner our dog angels leave us sooner than we want. When you are ready I found a book, I’m still here by Cathryn Michon that made me cry but also smile.
Sincerely sorry for the loss of your fur buddy.
So sorry to hear about losing your precious Oscar. I wiped tears through reading your wonderful tribute to him. I lost my Golden Retriever in 2024 at the age of 11 also. She was my heart, companion, and there is no way to explain the hurt of losing them. I feel your pain. ❤️
So sorry for your loss of sweet Oscar . My heart aches for you, Beth. I enjoyed , with sadness, your beautiful tribute to Oscar. Thank you for sharing him with us. ❤️
So sorry to hear, Beth, but glad you gave him such a beautiful ending to his beautiful life. I have a GS and they are very intuitive and smart dogs that seem to be able to look into your soul. Oscar will be missed by all of us.
So sorry for your loss of Oscar! 🥲
Oh the memories❣️. Sending love and prayers as you move into a new normal in a new year.
Long live Oscar’s memory! So sorry you lost this faithful companion and so glad he helped expand your brand beyond fashion. What a moving tribute to Oscar.
So, so sorry that you’ve had to say goodbye to your beloved Oscar.
Beth,
I have only found your articles recently, but enjoy them immensely. I love Fridays with Oscar and am so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful, heartfelt tribute to him. Our pets are our family and it is so difficult to lose them. I am a dog lover as well and have experienced the loss. My heart and prayers are with you and your family.
Losing a pet is one of the hardest things a person can go through. They give so much and demand so little only love. Since Oscar was a large dog getting to the age of 11 meant he was very well taken care of and loved. Having lost five dogs I know what you are going through. Take care.
I am so sorry for your loss. Pets are especially hard because of the amazing place they have in our hearts. I understand.
I am so sorry for your loss- my heart breaks knowing the pain you are enduring. We lost our golden retriever Ginger 2 & 1/2 years ago and I still expect her to be there when we come home. What a blessing for both you and Oscar to share such an enduring and unconditional love. Prayers for you.
I’m so sorry for your loss!
Im so very sorry Beth. Im sitting here sharing in your pain, tears running down my face. He was not a dog, he was your loving companion and support and reason for going on these last few years. Thank you for sharing him with all your readers and his love with remain with you as you move forward in embracing your grief and adjusting to his empty spot.
Oscar was one of a kind, true to his breed, only like a shepherd could fulfill. He enriched your life and you gave him the best life possible.
My thoughts are with you and the family, God bless.
It is always so hard to lose a pet. Sending my condolences.
Beth, I’m so very sorry for your loss.
I have followed you for about 8 years or more and honestly, Oscar was part of the reason… he was adorable and I just love animals! I know how you feel, it’s so hard to lose our fur babies. It’s a love like no other. Keep doing what you do, I m sure he will be there in spirit watching along with Mr Style. Much love and prayers for healing and strength.♥️ Judy
Beth, I’m so very sorry to hear this news. Consider me another blog reader who loved seeing and hearing about Oscar! I think I’ve cried twice reading your blog over the years—today and the post you shared to tell us about Mr. Style. It’s all so incredibly sad but also incredibly wonderful to know such love. Thinking of you.
Beth, my heart is breaking over the loss of Oscar. Our pets become such a large and important part of our lives that it is devastating when they are no longer beside us. Prayers for you. I know my Charlie (I lost him 5 years ago) was also there to meet him when he walked off the rainbow bridge. Thanks to Oscar and you for bringing such joy to all of us. He was a handsome fella.
I gasped when I saw your post. I am so sorry. You gave him a wonderful life. 💔
Dear Beth
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Oscar will forever be in your heart. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Thank you Beth for sharing Oscar with us, I always looked forward to hearing about him along with your on point style advice. My heart and prayers are with you following your loss. I agree that animals are such intuitive companions with unconditional love.
Beth, I am so sorry for your loss of Oscar. I hope writing about him here helped ease your deep pain. You are right : we share your grief, which I hope will help you get through this period of shock and grieving. You were also correct thinking that many of us have had the same difficult experience of losing a beloved pet. I lost my little westie Lucy suddenly when she was just 11 (my first one was almost 16 when she died.) It was heartbreaking! That was in 2019. I still cling to precious memories, even though I now have my third (and final) westie. Something about dogs … They truly are ‘man’s’ best friend!
Take care. Sending you prayers of love and comfort. -kate
Sending love to you Beth – rest easy sweet Oscar💔
What a beautiful tribute to your wonderful faithful friend Oscar! It is so hard to lose a fur baby…yes, they are angels with fur ❤️. So sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing. 🐾🌈
I’m so sorry to know that Oscar has crossed over the rainbow bridge. We’ve lost beloved pets, too, and you are right, their paw prints are forever on our hearts. Lots of love to you and your grieving family.
I am so sorry about the passing of your beloved dog. Even though it has been several years since our golden retriever passed away my family and I still remember him! Keeping you in my thoughts!!
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray the Lord blesses you with comfort. I know the pain you are feeling.
My heart breaks for you. I, too, believe they are angels.
I am so very sorry to hear about wonderful Oscar. He will certainly be missed by all of your followers. We had a golden retriever that fould his way to our home as a puppy and brought us much happiness for 14 years. I understand! And how lucky we all are to have had these wonderful companions in our lives. Sending all of you a big hug!
Dear Beth,I am so sorry for Oscar.I have lost my Freddie and i know how painful is.I wish you happy new year with love and joy.I always admire you.
Dear Beth, sending love from Seattle. I’m so sorry for your loss. Oscar added so much love and fullness to your life over the years. He was a good boy who improved your life by just being there. And you gave him a great life by loving him. May his memory be a blessing.
Julie
I’m sorry to hear about Oscar, but know he’s well now. One of the hardest things in the world is losing our animal companions. I always loved seeing his and Ollie’s pictures on Friday. I will keep you in my thoughts.
There are no words that can help with this grief. It’s the absolute worse. You certainly gave him a great life. It’s the day to day that I had for 16 years. I hope you find some peace.
I’m so very sorry for the loss of Oscar. I cried. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Tears ran down my checks as I read this tribute to Oscar. I didn’t know your wonderful dog or companion, but my heart aches for you. I was sobbing as you talked about how he was such a blessing to you when you lost Mr. Styles. I know what you are going through as I lost my husband 13 years ago now. I am been remarried for 7 years now, and it is good, but know your pain. I had a cat when he past and she knew too. Hug your Ollie as she will be your source of friendship now. Loved all the pictures. The one on the hill is wonderful. God Bless.
I’m so sorry about Oscar. Pets are so special and your Oscar was a sweet one. What a wonderful life you gave him and he gave you all. xo
So very sorry for your loss. I’ve love your blogs but especially Fridays with Oscar. I’m an animal lover and know how the loss of a furry friend feels. My heart goes out to you. He will still watch over you as an angel.
So sorry for your loss. Oscar – the star!
I cried as I read your letter. I am very sorry that you lost Oscar, your best friend. Sending hugs from NC.
So very sorry for the lost of your beloved Oscar
I’ve followed you since Oscar was a pup, and I looked forward to seeing him with you each week. I know the pain and sadness you feel, and I’ll be thinking of you. We are collie people and know the intelligence and joy of the herding breed. Take care.
Gail
Beth I am sorry for your loss – he was a joy to see on your blog.
Beth,
I want to give you a big hug. I lost our last pup 5 years after my husband passed. I am still walking around the house talking to her! “Let’s figure out dinner” etc. Thinking of you today!
Jodi
It is so hard to lose our precious furry friends. I lost my chocolate lab in May. There are still times it hits me all over again. They fill our life with such joy. You are so wise to look back and enjoy the memories.
They do become family, don’t they?
Sending hugs to you for the loss of your sweet boy. I always enjoyed the pics you shared every Friday, and will miss seeing him.
Thank you for sharing his story.
I am indeed grieving with you. 🥺❣️
Sending love and heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing Oscar with us. Our beloved canine companions enrich our lives profoundly as you so beautifully have expressed. May the love and prayers of this community provide comfort to you.
So sorry to hear that Beth. Losing a beloved pet is such a wrench – happy memories of Fridays with Oscar, always a good way to start the weekend. Sending love and hugs from Scotland.
Dearest Beth, I am so sorry for your loss. I welcome you to the club of humans who have known the love and devotion of our angels on earth. The loss will always be there, but the warm and loving memories overshadow everything. We welcome your Fridays with Oscar in the future no matter how they appear.
So sorry for the loss of Oscar. Losing a family member is always hard and Oscar was a vital part of your family. My deepest sympathies.
I am very sorry to hear about Oscar, I always loved seeing him and reading about him in your posts. You gave him a lovely tribute. I’ve been lucky enough to have 5 German Shepherds in my life and they are incredibly loyal and loving. It is so hard to lose our furbabies, my heart goes out to you.
Dear Beth,
I’m so very sorry for your loss of dear Oscar. I still feel sad for every pet I’ve ever had and lost. They never leave us. They enrich our lives while they’re here.
Right now Oscar is healthy and happy again keeping Mr. Style company. Thank you for sharing him with us!
Oh Beth, I am so sorry! He was a wonderful, handsome, faithful boy. Your tribute to him was moving and beautiful.
Thank you for sharing him with us.
Love,
Suzanne
Dogs are truly angels with fur!
Oh Beth, such a beautiful tribute to Oscar. I’m so very sorry for your loss. I have had six dogs cross the bridge and it never gets easier. Their unconditional love is so worth the pain of losing them. Each creates a love spot on your heart and when they go, after a while, I always feel the need to “grow” that spot by loving another. I pray happy memories sustain you until that time comes. And if it doesn’t, Oscar’s spot will be enough. I pray blessings to you in your sorrow.
Loving tribute to Oscar. Loss of a beloved pet is heartbreaking. Oscar will stay in yr heart forever. God bless.
Sending love to you. I’m heartbroken for you and believe me, I feel your loss.
Thank you for sharing your loving furry family. Oscar was a very special boy.
Beth, Beautiful and heart breaking 💔
Hugs and love
Cynthia
Tears with my coffee this morning, Beth. My heart is broken for you and all Oscar’s family. Oscar was a very special dog..his personality came through the computer screen with your words and all the photos you shared.Thank you for sharing him. I will miss him and hope to hear a story or two as you remember him in your posts.
I’m so sorry. Sending you hugs.
My heartfelt condolences to you. Oscar was a family member, integrated into your life and so fortunate to be treated with the kindness and respect that all pets crave and deserve. Unfortunately it sounds like you had to make a difficult decision at the end of his days which can be guilt producing but, an ultimate act of love. I often feel that people don’t deserve dogs as they are so intrinsically good.
I’m so sorry to hear about Oscar. He was a beautiful furry friend. I know all to well about the passing of our furry loved ones. We have had 5 go over to the rainbow bridge. After 3 years of the passing of our rescue Rex we added our sweet Teddy. He is a beautiful red Moyan Poodle. It took a while for us to jump back in to having a pet again but he has brought such love and joy to our lives. I know we walk more and talk to people more with Teddy in tow. Thinking of you as you morn the loss of your sweet Oscar.
I have tears in my eyes. What a beautiful tribute to Oscar.
Hugs.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. My story is very similar. I lost my husband to lung cancer in 2018 and 2 years later I had to put our beloved Tobey (hubby’s BFF) to sleep at age 16. It was very tough and what got me through it was my belief that my husband and Tobey are together loving eternal life and hoping I end up with them (my exact destination TBD – ha!). Be gentle with yourself; I love all you do across social media but we can wait until you feel better. Please take care.
Thank you for sharing Oscar with your readers. Your tribute to him is beautifully written. My father always had a German shepherd as his best friend. My heart aches for you. Rest easy sweet boy😥
My heart is breaking for you! So sorry for your loss! We all will be missing Oscar ! ❤️
Beth,
I am so sorry to read about the loss of dear Oscar. It is so heartbreaking to lose our precious pets. I’ve always loved GSDs. We’ve on our fourth and she is 8 so I cherish every moment with her. I know Oscar will always be in your heart. Perhaps he will send you another GSD to love like our Major ( who died suddenly from hemangiosarcoma) sent us Rosie.
Run free at the Rainbow Bridge dear Oscar ❤️🐾
I’m in tears reading this…we all loved precious Oscar and looked forward to seeing him on Fridays. I’m so sorry – all animal lovers know how hard this is 💔
My heart is breaking, so sorry to hear about the loss of Oscar. Thank you for sharing him with us, he looked like such a handsome and regal companion.
I loved seeing the photos of Oscar through the years, and hope the memories of his love provide you with comfort.
What a touching tribute to your beautiful furry best friend! So sorry for your loss.
What a beautiful tribute. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Thinking of you.
I’m so sorry for your loss Beth. But what a wonderful tribute to your beloved Oscar .
Marty
Beth, I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious Oscar. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Dear Beth,
Thank you for sharing your love story about life with Oscar. I had a good cry as your story reminded me of our German Shepherds who have crossed the Rainbow Bridge too.
Thank you for sharing him with us. He was a treasure and I will miss him.
Take good care of yourself.
Love to you and your family, Kathaleen XO
So sorry he was truly special and loved. May he rest in peace
I’m so sorry to hear about Oscar, I lost my Ruby last Spring and I still miss her. I always looked forward to seeing whatever Oscar was doing. God bless you Beth, he is irreplaceable!
Weeping with you, Beth. Very heartfelt tribute to your faithful companion. I will miss his check-in every Friday.
I am so sorry for your incredibly sad loss. I have been there many times myself and it is truly the most heartbreaking thing to go through. Our beloved pets touch us in ways that really they have no idea how special they are or how much we need them. I am happy to have known Oscar through your blog, I grew up with German Shepherds and felt a kinship with you watching his interactions with you and Kelly on Fridays. He will definitely be missed. Bless you.
Beautifully written! My condolences to you. Take care.
This is a pain that only a “dog person” is capable of feeling. The tender thoughts and memories of your beloved Oscar resurrected my own memories of losing my dearest Scottish terrier, Mr. McGruder. It’s been thirty seven years since his passing and my eyes still fill with tears at this loss.
I do believe that all good dogs go to heaven,
and it gives me great joy to think that he along with my other special pets shall be there to greet me one day.
Bless you and rest in peace dear Oscar.
What a beautiful tribute. He was such a handsome boy. When my beloved black lab died in 2012( I still miss him) a friend sent me a quote that read”Dogs, they are not our whole life, but they make our life whole”. I’m very sorry for your loss.
I had no idea the depth of pain that occurred when losing a pet, until our first dog passed in June 2023. Even now, the heartbreak can be overwhelming. Because of that, I can weep with you, my heart aches for you, and yet I smile for the love and joy you and Oscar shared. Our fur babies–forever in our hearts. Sending love to you….
Sending virtual hugs to you Beth. I live in Northumberland in the UK
I’ve lost three dogs during my lifetime, the last one was 20yrs ago and I decided I wouldn’t have another as losing them was too painful.
However, 2 weeks ago a gorgeous 13 weeks old Sprocker Spaniel came into my life. Now it feels like he’s been here forever and was meant to be, as someone else was supposed to be getting him but they never showed to collect him, Karma certainly.
He’s reminding me of all the best times of owning my dogs over the years.
You gave Oscar the best life he could ever have asked for and he knew he was well loved.
It will be hard for a while, but you’ll get through it with all the love surrounding you from your family and everyone you have touched around the world. X
Beth, my heart hurts for you. Our dogs are part of our family and Oscar definitely was part of yours. I lost my 2 little pups a year apart and my husband 4 months later last November It has been very difficult year, but 2 months ago I got a little puppy to help fill those long evenings. It has helped me so much. She will only be about 7 pounds but thinks she is much bigger! It took me some time to make the decision, but it is one of the best decisions I have made. I love your blogs and outfit suggestions. Love that you are keeping Oscar in the Friday title. Wishing you a Happy and Healthy New Year.
my heart breaks for you..my husband and I married 56 years have gone thru your heartbreak 4 times..someone gave us a plate that says ” you have left my life but will never leave my heart”..prayers to you and your family
Pets are members of our family, offering a loyalty that’s steady through our highs and lows. That ever-wagging tail was a constant light, even on dark days. While words cannot capture the depth of your void, please know I’m holding you close in thought.
Peace and comfort to you as you adjust to life without Oscar. May all your wonderful memories sustain you.
Crying as I write this loved seeing Oscar on your blog. Anyone who has had to let their beloved animal go knows the heartache. We are with you and your pain he’s in heaven waiting for you.
Beth, I read this through tears, knowing your pain. Having lost my husband in 2021 and then losing our handsome black lab the following year, I understand your pain. Both are still missed tremendously. Oscar was such a delight and I have loved seeing him every Friday. He will be missed by all. 💔💔
So very sorry for your loss. Oscar was a beautiful dog. German Sheperds intimate me but I think they are great dogs. I, too, lost my BFF, Rudy, my 6 pound Yorkie in August. I fear I will never be the same. I miss him so.
Best wishes for 2026.
I’m so sad to hear about Oscar. He was the best, most handsome boy! He is over the rainbow playing with my black labs. You wrote a beautiful tribute to him.
Ohhhh Beth, I’m so sorry. There is nothing like the love of a dog. Peace be with you.
Dear Beth,
I am so sorry and I know the grief you are experiencing. Our pets are a family member and seem to know our thoughts. I am going to miss Oscar too.
Sincerely, Gerri
Oscar was one in a million and will be missed. My heart goes out to you. I lost my first Cairn Terrier at 9 from cancer my second at 13 and now have my third Jake. It is so hard to lose a beloved member of the family. 💕
So many tears. Thank you for sharing Oscar throughout the years, such a joyful part of Fridays! He will truly be missed!
My heart breaks for you and your beautiful writing brings tears to my eyes.
I lost my husband at age 59. It was pretty devastating. I had never lived alone but I had my Ivy girl, my boxer. Ivy got me through months of grief, loneliness and feeling sorry for myself. She seemed to know and understand my feelings. She made the house less lonely and made me get up and out every morning. It was one of the saddest days of my life when I said goodbye to her. And even now, although I have a wonderful Goldendoodle, I still miss my Ivy girl. She will always hold a place in my heart.
Peace to you and Ollie, Beth.
I am just sobbing. My brother lost his faithful companion last week & they are just broken. I am so sorry for the loss of Oscar. I so enjoyed seeing him in your posts. Our pets are so unconditionally loving for all their lives & part of ours. They leave such a hole in our heart. May you stay strong remembering your love of Oscar & he really is running to meet Mr. Style!
Oh Beth, I’m so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to your faithful friend! It made me weep remembering the loss of all the fur babies of our lives. Still hurts but you’re right, so many sweet memories. Thankful God’s perfect timing brought the blessing of grandchildren into your life this year. There’s so much more joy to come.
So sorry to hear of Oscar’s passing. He was such a beautiful soul. May he run free in heaven with the angels.
Dear Beth,
So sorry for your loss and sending love to you in this sad time
Dear Beth- Your beautiful tribute to Oscar brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Oscar and may you run free at the Rainbow Bridge.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Oscar was a beautiful dog. You could see the gentleness in his eyes. I know the love and joy they bring.
Beth, what a beautiful reflection of the love you shared with Oscar. I know there’s nothing that truly eases this kind of loss, but loving a dog so deeply is something I understand well. Someday you may open your heart to another companion, but Oscar will always be one of a kind. Sending you so much love.
My first time commenting here. I wanted to let you know how sorry I am. As a reader I will miss Oscar.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my fur baby in July and my heart is broken. Maybe there will be a time in the near future where you may decide to open your heart to another sweet pup. Until then enjoy the memories.
So sorry for your loss of beautiful Oscar. I have enjoyed seeing his photos over the years. Your tribute is so beautiful and reminds me so much of my Buddy we lost a year ago. Pets truly have our hearts and love us unconditionally. May your happy memories help sustain you during this hard time. 🥰
They say our grief is the price we pay to love. I’m so sorry for your loss. I sit here with my own golden boy, Tank – head on my lap – giving him extra love as I cry while reading this…knowing one day he will break my heart. I’ve got a ways to go with him – but definitely know the pain of losing a 4-legged best friend. You gave him an amazing life filled with love.
So sorry to hear about Oscar. May he be forever young at the Rainbow Bridge.
Oh, dear Beth! My heart aches for you at the loss of your dear Oscar! Thank you so much for sharing Oscar with us, your faithful readers all these years. I so enjoyed reading of his antics, and looked forward to each Friday to see him featured, and especially his photos. I pray for a blanket of peace to surround you and your heart in these days of grief and loss. Your readers send you much love and caring hearts.
Oh Beth, I am so very sorry. I can feel your heartbreak. Oscar was a handsome furbaby and precious companion and I know you have a big hole in your heart.
Oh Beth, my tears are falling for your loss. Like other followers. I just loved seeing your beautiful boy each Friday. My heartfelt hugs are with you.
My heart aches for you. You can feel the love that you had for Oscar in this tribute to him. Sending love and hugs your way.
dear Beth … i am so very sad for your lose, keep all of those lovely memories that you shared close to your heart … Jayne
So very sorry. My Stella crossed the bridge 17 months ago. She is always in my heart, as Oscar will be in yours. Concentrating on all those wonderful moments is, indeed, best. Kisses on Ollie’s head will help, too. Best wishes for you.
Condolences on the loss of your ever faithful friend.
My ❤️ is breaking for you right now. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing Oscar with everyone.he was truly loved by everyone , I already miss him!
Beth,
My heart hurts for you and all those who loved Oscar. Loosing a beloved pet is so painful. I read your blog daily and rarely comment. Seeing you with Oscar over the years, there’s no doubt he was well loved and lived the best life thanks to you. Take care of yourself.
Dear Beth,
I’m so sorry to read this sad news. Pets leave an unfillable hole in our hearts and lives when they go on. After my 15 year old Maine Coon passed I was very hesitant to have another pet; my husband reminded me that while pets share a big portion of our lives, we shape their entire life. You gave Oscar a grand and wonderful life of adventure and love. He was a lucky boy, the love you have for him still leaps from your words. Thank you for sharing him with us all of these years. Take good care until we hear from you again.
Shannon
I am so sorry. I have been a reader since Oscar’s early days in San Francisco. I always looked forward to seeing photos of him. Crying as I type this.
My most sincere sympathy for the loss of your sweet Oscar. We have had pets in our lives (mainly German Shepherds) most all our 57yrs of married life. The hardest times are when they leave us.
I’ve always enjoyed Fridays with Oscar, he left his paw prints on hearts he never knew.
Beth, I am so sorry for your loss of Oscar. What a majestic and beautiful soul! Pets bring so much joy to our lives just when we need it most (and in such a short span of time). I know he will watch over you and, as you said, be there waiting for you as he always has.
I am so sorry for your loss. Over the course of my 60 years, I have had the absolute privilege of sharing my life’s journey with many furry family members who gave love unconditionally. Many have now gone but were loved and will stay in my heart forever. Again, my sympathies.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Oscar was one of the most beautiful dogs I’ve ever seen. I lost my beloved little Cinnamon 3 years ago. She was my best friend, companion, confident, comforter for 16 years. I miss her to this day.
I am praying for you and completely understand your grief. People have told me to get another dog, but the heartbreak of losing Cinnamon has been too much to think about it. Maybe one day soon.
I so enjoy your blog. Thank you for all the wonderful tips.
Dearest Beth,
Such a beautiful tribute to your furry Soul Mate. Oscar was a handsome boy. All pets have an intuition out of love for their humans. I am constantly amazed by this. And I understand the foot prints on your heart as they remain fresh and ever present, everyday. We will all keep you in our prayers. Sending hugs to ease your heart and mind.
My heart goes out to you. Oscar was one of the draws to your blog for me. When I joined years ago, I was widowed at the time, and he helped cheer me up.
Dearest Beth,
My heart aches … Deepest condolences for your loss. We will always love Oscar … Beyond words now…
Dear Beth,
Having been through this 13 times in 38 years, I offer you the following, with love:
“Near this Spot
are deposited the Remains of one
who possessed Beauty without Vanity,
Strength without Insolence,
Courage without Ferosity,
and all the virtues of Man without his Vices.
This praise, which would be unmeaning Flattery
if inscribed over human Ashes,
is but a just tribute to the Memory of
Boatswain, a Dog
who was born in Newfoundland May 1803
and died at Newstead November 18th 1808”
– George Gordon, Lord Byron
So so sorry for your loss. I’ve always enjoyed “Fridays with Oscar,”. Pets do have a way of stealing our hearts when we least expect it. Your tribute to him was sweet and very special. Hugs to you and Ollie
Dear Beth,
As an animal lover myself I feel your anguish and your intense pain.
I’m so deeply sorry to here about your precious boy…
My sincere sympathies and prayers to you &
your family during this difficult time…
Thinking of you… 💔
I am sorry Beth. They are so special and I thank you for sharing Oscar with us all these years. Please take care.
Dear Beth, thank you so much for sharing this beautiful tribute to Oscar. My heart grieves with yours. I remember the first time I saw Oscar wander through the video you had posted and how my spirit leapt with joy. I have missed our beloved German Shepherds – Gretel, Gus, Pecos and Cisco. I could write a book about each one. I haven’t had a dog for a few years now and so, Oscar was my vicarious experience of having a German Shepherd. The thoughts and feelings you wrote about Ollie’s life and crossing over mirror my own experience with my dogs. You’ll be in my prayers as you move forward and as you look toward your reunion with Mr. Style and Ollie. I didn’t discover you until after Mr. Style. I’ve wondered if there is a place to learn more about the man behind Beth Djalali. I love hearing people’s stories and would love to hear more of yours. I hope 2026 will be the best year yet!
I am so sorry for your loss of your dear Oscar. I always looked forward to Fridays with Oscar. Knowing how hard it is to lose a pet is heart- breaking. May you cherish your beautiful memories of Oscar every day.
Beautiful tribute. I remember when he was a puppy. Wow, he brought happiness to all, what a life he enjoyed as well.
Dear Beth, thank you so much for sharing this beautiful tribute to Oscar. My heart grieves with yours. I remember the first time I saw Oscar wander through the video you had posted and how my spirit leapt with joy. I have missed our beloved German Shepherds – Gretel, Gus, Pecos and Cisco. I could write a book about each one. I haven’t had a dog for a few years now and so, Oscar was my vicarious experience of having a German Shepherd. The thoughts and feelings you wrote about Ollie’s life and crossing over mirror my own experience with my dogs. You’ll be in my prayers as you move forward and as you look toward your reunion with Mr. Style and Ollie.
To the moderator: I posted a few minutes ago and as I re-read it realized I mentioned Ollie twice in place of Oscar! I’m so sorry. Can you take the post down or make corrections?
I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. Animals make house a home and I know your home is missing Oscar something terribly right now. You are lucky to have him in your life and so many wonderful memories and pictures to cherish always. Rest in peace you sweet and faithful boy. Beth, may your heart heal and you too find love again with another angel with fur ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. Oscar was such an amazing part of blog. He will be missed…❤️
Oh Beth,
The loss of a good dog leaves such huge vacancy in your heart, soul & your home. Those of us who’ve been there are keeping you in our thoughts & prayers. We had a German Shepherd when we were young. There is something so regal & majestic about them. I’m glad you have so many lovely photos, memories & your Friday blog page to commemorate him. Oscar will be greatly missed but fondly remembered! He was a beautiful boy!
A beautiful tribute and gorgeous pictures of dear Oscar. He will be missed by all. They really are angels cloaked in fur.
Oh my, I’m so sad to read this…in fact, I had gone to have my hair trimmed, pulled out my phone, started reading and teared up, so put my phone away until I got home and could cry in private for sweet Oscar…it is so sad when they have to leave us…have experienced this sadness and grief over the years with my beagle babies…my heart feels so heavy grieving for you….Oscar was loved by so many…rest in peace sweet boy!!!💔🐶
Beth, I am so sorry. They are more than pets, they are companions, they are family. Our pup crossed in September, it is a hole that is hard to fill. 🐾🙏
So sorry for your loss. So hard to lose a wonderful friend and companion.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Oscar was a beautiful soul and companion for you. Losing a fur baby is incredibly hard and I feel your pain. We lost a dear fur baby this past August and decided quickly to get another which we did. Our new baby will never take the place of the one we lost but has been the therapy we needed to move forward. Oscar will always be with you in spirit.
Dear Beth,
My heart goes out to you as I sit and wipe my tears away. I lost my baby girl, Leila, two years ago this week. It ws heart wrenching after 15 years of love, joy and friendship. The heartache does wane and the memories become more profound. My sincerest heartfelt condolences to you. Fridays with Oscar has always been my favorite part of the week!
Sincerely,
Ana
I’m so sorry for your loss. Last April I had to put my beloved cat Buddy down. It was so difficult. He was my companion for 16 years. He was Mr. Personality. He loved parties and company. My friends all loved him. My Christmas gift from my 30 year granddaughter was a painting she did from pictures she had. She caught his essence. When I look at him I see his presence. Not sure if I will ever find a cat with his personality. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Beth, I’ve followed you for years and was one of Oscar’s many fans. I can’t find words to express my sympathies on your loss, save to say that that I lost my “heart dog” too several years ago and understand.
Your beautiful words about Oscar had me in tears. It was the best tribute to your good boy.
I’m so sorry. A beautiful tribute to the wonders of Oscar.
Oh my goodness Beth, this wasn’t the blog I was expecting to see today. I’m so sorry on losing Oscar, I’m typing this message through tears. Our fur babies are an amazing part of our lives and wish we could have them forever. I know the sadness and grief when we lose them.
Just think he’s running and jumping over the Rainbow Bridge now, he was welcomed by all we have lost.
Thanks for sharing your beautiful tribute to Oscar.
RIP Oscar
Beth, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Those of us who knew Oscar through your blog and YouTube videos grieve with you. He was a handsome fellow and will be missed. When you lose someone you love having a dog by your side is a special comfort that’s hard to explain. You’ve done that beautifully. My heart is with you as you mourn Oscar’s loss.
Beth I am so sorry for your loss
Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss. You wrote a wonderful tribute to Oscar that brought me to tears. I’m sitting here with my best furry friend Sasha who turns 11 in a few days. Our time with our beloved pets is never long enough. They enrich and bless our lives and teach us important life lessons. Oscar, thank you for all the Fridays of wonderful posts- job well done boy! You will be missed by many readers.
Fondly,
Pam
I’m truly sorry for your loss. No matter how long we have them, it’s never long enough.May his memory be a blessing to you and those who knew and loved him.
Hugs to you & all who loved Ollie.
🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Dear Beth,
I am so sorry for the loss. How blessed you are to have had such a beautiful boy!
Oscar couldn’t ask for a more loving family Thank you for sharing him with us.
Dear Beth, Such a beautiful tribute to your sweet Oscar. I know how a loving pet can change your life and carry you thorough the challenging times. I have enjoyed the role he played each week in your posts. Hugs…
I’m so sorry for your loss. You gave him a beautiful life.
I shed tears as I read this. I always looked forward to FWO. So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Oscar and Ollie with us. Even though he’s no longer physically here. He will always be in your heart. I believe we will see our beloved pets again in another life. My thoughts and prayers are with you in the coming days. Much love, Vicki
Oh, Beth!!! As a person, and I know I wasn’t alone, who tuned in to all your wonderful posts, I was always searching for the pics of Oscar, too. I would even call my husband in an say “Look at this beautiful dog!” Ha!! You gave him a most wonderful life!! My heart breaks for you. And, you’ll think of him so much!! He is in Doggy Heaven. I’m so sorry, Beth!!! All my love!!!! Denise
A beautiful tribute to Oscar. He was so loved and adored by you and your readers. I’m crying along with you as I’m reading this and as you navigate through the loss of Oscar. And yes, they are very intuitive! My sweet Roxy waited until two days after my husband retired before she left her earthly home (April 2023). Miss her terribly but like you, I have many wonderful memories.
I’m so sorry to hear about Oscar’s passing. He lived a great life full of love! And he was with you during your time of greatest need. Keeping you in my prayers.
Thank you for sharing Oscar with me every Friday.
So sorry for your loss.❤️🩹 we lost our yellow lab two years ago. Now his ashes greet me in the garden under his favorite tree.
Beth, I could not get through reading this without tears in my eyes. Oscar was special especially how he helped you your grief. It’s amazing how animals can sense when we need them.
He will be missed I always enjoyed seeing him every week. At least he went peacefully with his family around.
Take care.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Animals are our angels and he will be watching over you and Ollie. Here’s to Oscar… ❤️🙏🏻
I’m so sorry for your loss! I know how it feels to lose a dear furry friend. He was a beautiful soul inside and out!
Dear Beth,
As so many others have said, I feel your loss. I cried as I read your post today. I too have lost furry family members. The hardest was the loss of my cat Sheba. She was my middle child, born in 1983 in my bedroom between human daughter #1 in 1980 and human daughter #2 in 1986. She lived nearly 21 years. A very long time for a cat, but not long enough for her human family.
Pets love us unconditionally and I think they make us better people for the lessons they teach us. I know that you will grieve Oscar for quite some time. I hope that soon the good memories will outweigh the sadness.
Beth, I’m so sorry about Oscar. He was such a handsome boy! Dogs have a way of becoming part of the family in a very special way. I know it’s painful right now and you feel like there’s a hole in your heart, but it will get easier – not better, but easier. You’ll be fine and then something will remind you of him – a smell, a dog toy, a photo. I’m sure you have so many good memories of his time with you. Hang on to those memories. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Dear Beth
I have been with you since San Francisco. I, too, lost my husband Larry in 2019. We had a dog Beau. I was fortunate and blessed to have Beau by my side until he crossed the rainbow bridge. I cried when I read your blog on the loss of your beloved Oscar. Your messages on grief were a great help to me. Stay strong and healthy.
Love and Hugs, Roberta
So sorry Beth. Beautiful tribute to a beloved pet and friend. Sending hugs xxx
As a long time viewer, i am going to miss sweet Oscar. My heart is broken for you.😥
Oh Beth, I am so sorry for the loss of beautiful Oscar. The pain is real. I loved seeing Oscar in his majestic beauty. Sending hugs. #childwithfur
Beth,
I’m so sorry for your loss! Oscar will not only be missed by you and your loved ones, but by all of us who looked forward to Friday’s with Oscar.
Sending you prayers of comfort during this difficult time.
Love, Donna
Such a wonderful tribute to Oscar. So sorry for your loss. You were able to give Oscar his best life and he was able to fulfill his purpose and take care of you. Wishing you peace in 2026.
Beth, Oscar had a great run. He was so handsome and I know that he was a great companion. My husband and I have had many GSD’s and although each one is different there are enough similarities (smart, funny, talkative) that I did especially relate to him. You do a wonderful job of sharing your ups and downs. May he rest in peace.
You were a sweet blessing to each other.
After our Granddog, Nuggie left I’ve wondered several times if in Heaven he’ll speak and tell me exactly how he felt about the times we shared. That makes me smile.
I’m praying for you and your family dealing with his passing.
Dear Beth,
I loved seeing Oscar and hearing about him in your posts. Sending you and yours lots of love as you navigate time without him. He was one in a million! And it was obvious to all he loved being around you.
Be good to yourself friend,
Francesca B
My heart breaks for you Beth. Oscar was certainly a bit of sunshine each time he appeared in Style at a Certain Age. I am sending loving, comforting energy your way. I know, as so many of us do, what it is to lose a beloved pet who is an integral part of our lives. Warm hugs.
What a beautiful tribute to Oscar, a well loved and loving companion! I know how you feel – we’ve said goodbye to Bear (a sweet flat coated retriever) in 2019, and to Zoe (a mixed herding dog) in 2024. Oscar was so fortunate to have you and your family as his people, and I know you will always feel his love for you!
So very sorry.
Dear Beth
I have been with you since San Francisco. I, too, lost my husband Larry in 2019. We had a dog Beau. I was fortunate and blessed to have Beau by my side until he crossed the rainbow bridge. I cried when I read your blog on the loss of your beloved Oscar. Your messages on grief were a great help to me. Stay strong and healthy.
Love and Hugs, Roberta
Paraphrasing something I read online about grief and loss: The hole in your life left by the death of a beloved pet is the exact shape of your love.
Terribly sorry for your loss.
Tears are streaming down my face as I write this. I understand the absoulte love for our pets. I have two German Shepherds and love them like you love Oscar. German Shepherds are a special breed. My heart goes out to you and wish I could just hug you. You have been through so much lose and always write so beautifully about your feelings. I truly appreciate when you share such intimate thoughs. Truly love you website.
Dear Beth,
I’m so sorry for your loss. As you’ve said, they leave paw prints on our hearts and we’re do much richer because of that unconditional live and loyalty.
Sending you hugs from Germany
I am so so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to your fur baby.
I am sorry to hear about Oscar’s passing. I looked forward to Friday’s with Oscar –
Our pets bring us unconditional love and make us better people. I know he is with Mr. Style watching down on you with love and cheering you on for all you have accomplished.
Beth: I am so sorry to learn of Oscar’s passing. We too lost our beloved cat Pounce the week before Christmas so I can certainly empathize with you. Two years ago on Thanksgiving we lost our beloved horse Riley on Thanksgiving night. I guess God needed our special pets for some reason unknown to us. In time we will be able to look back on our memories and smile and remember how lucky we were to have had them in our lives. My sympathies to you and your family.
Oh Beth, I am so very sorry for your loss. While is so painful to lose a pet, it is important to remember all the goodness they brought to our lives. Every bit a member of our families💜. Oscar will indeed meet you on the other side at the Rainbow Bridge.
Beth, I’m so sorry for your loss of Oscar, always enjoyed seeing him. Hugs and prayers to you ❤️
I grieve with you. We have 3 fur babies right now and want everyone as long as health allows. Loving them is easy. Living without them unimaginable.
Beth,
My heartfelt condolences for the loss of your beloved Oscar. We lost our sweet lab, Bandit in February. The pain and grief linger popping up at the most unexpected times. He was special the way Oscar was. I pray the Lords comfort over your grieving heart in the days ahead.
Love and prayers dear sister in Christ❤️
Jody
I fell in love with Oscar the minute I saw him appear in San Francisco ❤️ He was always a special guy! I am afraid the days are short for my 15 year old golden retriever Gracie. Her back legs are also challenged as was Oscars. Rest in peace my beloved Oscar 🙏
God Bless Oscar. What a beautiful tribute to your faithful companion. I am writing through tears of my own.
Our pets are certainly angels on earth. I wish you love and peace as you recall all the wonderful times you shared. Thank you for sharing Oscar with us all these years.
I’m so very sorry to
Hear of your loss of Oscar. Losing a pet is so very hard.
It took me 3 attempts to finish this post as my tears were falling at your sweet tribute to Oscar. I am thinking of you and praying for you Beth.
Beth, I am so sorry over the loss of Oscar. You and I are the same age. I have had dogs all of my life, and it never gets easier that they are so sort lived. What a lot of love they are able to pack into their short, sweet lives. Oscar was such a handsome boy, and his good kind heart shined through each of his photos. Dogs are a wonderful example of the adage “actions speak louder than words.” No one who has ever been loved by a dog needs to be told that it’s not the words that matter in a relationship. I hope you can find some comfort in the knowledge that you gave Oscar a wonderful life full of love, walks, friendship, treats and laughter. Perfect.
Oh Beth…I’m writing this through tears, as I…everyone who has ever loved a pup…knows your grief and shares your heartache. I’m sure Mr. Style was on the other side of the rainbow bridge, and that Oscar jumped joyfully into his arms. Sending you my sympathy..
Oh, so sorry, Beth, so sad for the loss of your dear friend, little boy, Oscar. He was a member of your family. A wonderful friend, confident, companion, every day. 🙏🏻🪽😢💞
Oh Beth, I cried as I read your beautiful post and looked at the pictures. Fridays with Oscar’s was something I always looked forward to. He was such a handsome, sophisticated team member.
My darling Rocky died three weeks ago so this is even poignant for me. He was almost 15. A beautiful rescue Akita that lived with me for 14 years. He was actually my husband’s dog but after Jim died in 2014 Rocky looked after me. The worst times for me are when I wake up and when I come home.
I will miss Friday with Oscar but I love your commitment to honour. him with some continuation.
Sending you hugs
So sorry for your loss. Treasure the memories and smile because you have them.
Hello Beth,
Some time ago I read in your mails about the health situation of Oscar that was getting worse.
It is a strange coinsidence that my dear Pascha, my sweetest possible Golden Retriever also passed away last month, December 9th. His kidneys were exhausted. He was 9,5 years.
His passing was very raw and painful for my son and me.
It is just not possible to put into words what it means to loose your best friend.
I respect your wonderful tribute to Oscar on your website. Hopefully putting your feelings and memories on screen helped you with your grief.
How you write about Oscar is so recogniazble to us.
My son and me made a beautiful photobook of Pascha. We made a memory table for him in the living room. During the Christmas holidays which were quite difficult for us because of his passing, we talked a lot about him. We also put the cushions on which Pascha always slept in the living room.
The emptiness is too present.
I hope your cat will comfort you and in time you can find peace with the passing of Oscar.
We wish you courage and the perspective of a lovely 2026.
Take care,
Krista and Benjamin
I am so sorry for your loss. Our pets are definitely family. They can sense our needs and are always there for us.
Fridays will never be the same! Happy Trails to Oscar and thank you for your service. I am glad that you will be continuing the FWO tradition. We are of similar ages and I love all of your content, particularly the cocktails. You gave Oscar a wonderful life and I hope that this will comfort you.
“Grief is price we pay for love,” a quote from Queen Elizabeth, even for our beloved pets.
So so sorry for your loss. Oscar was a wonderful friend to you as only dogs can be. As time goes by you will rejoice in all the memories. But it will take time.
My heart aches for you. I am so sad about losing Oscar. People could learn from him. A class act.
OSCAR was a constant support when your husband died. Just as my late husband’s aging cat, Willie is to me. I feel your loss. When wild fire destroyed our home and property, and then shortly after, my husband died, it was his cat who offered comfort. I watched him walk around the husband calling out for my husband. The tears streaming down my face. Now, two years later, I call Willie an old man. And I wonder how much longer will he last. I truly understand and feel your loss. Oscar is with your husband in spirit. Many blessings !!!
I’m so sorry and saddened to hear of the passing of your sweet boy Oscar. I always look forward to seeing him in the background of your photos and to Fridays with Oscar – my favorite! Such a beautiful boy. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you so much for sharing him.
Dear Beth,
Oh no – oh no…
I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Oscar. His pictures, along with Ollie’s, were the favorite part of my Fridays.
I was so happy that you had Oscar and Ollie to keep you company when your wonderful husband passed, Beth. I have found the physical presence of a dog to be extremely comforting at a time of loss.
I realize that you did the right thing for Osar when he needed you the most. Please know that we will all miss
Oscar.
My deepest sympathy,
Madlyn
Oh Beth, I am so sorry for your loss. I looked forward to “Fridays with Oscar”, he will surely be missed by your followers. I know how painful it is to lose your furry best friend. Wishing you peace.
Karen
Beth,
Sorry for your loss of your furry friend Oscar.
Edie
I am so very sorry for your loss. Our pets are part of our families. I have been reading your posts a long time. Long enough to be here when Mr. Style passed. Long enough to see the changes like adding a daughter in law to the mix. Long enough to see you dress for a son’s wedding and long enough to know that you now have two granddaughters in your life. Wishing you the time to grieve your loss and come out with a smile.
So sorry for the loss of your beloved pet. I have really enjoyed seeing your post on Fridays With Oscar. Reading about your style for women over over 50. Oscar’s love will live forever in your heart. Susan from Milledgeville, Georgia
Dear Beth,
Fridays with Oscar is one of my favorite posts. What a treasure Oscar was. God bless you with comfort and peace.
I cried with you today for your sweet Oscar. Anyone who’s ever had a best friend relationship with a dog understands your pain. I’m still missing my sweet Bailey, and she’s been gone two years! She was the best, most caring, loving dog for me. So I know of this great loss! Eventually, maybe you’ll get another dog, but it will never replace Oscar. Love to you today!💜🦮
So sorry for your loss of Oscar. Our furbabies are definitely purely family. And I, like you, look forward to seeing them at the Rainbow Bridge.💔
Beth, I have followed you for years, long before Mr. Style passed away. I’m so sorry you have lost Oscar. He was indeed noble. Just imagine the reunion Oscar and Mr. Style must have had!
So sorry for your loss,Oscar looked so sweet and smart,💕
I grieve with you my friend. They are members of our family.
Take care
I am so sorry for your loss. I was in tears reading this blog. I am a pet lover, and losing a pet is so hard. My heart and prayers are with you.
I am so sorry to learn of Oscar’s passing. I share your heartbreak. My Spirit animal, Legacy, had to be put down due to heart issues. He was a beautiful black and white Tennessee Walker.
I am so very sorry about the loss of Oscar. We have had to put down 3 dogs. It is excruciating. Pets are family.
Thank you for sharing Oscar with us every Friday.
So sorry for your loss. I looked forward every Friday’s post. Even if I didn’t have time to read the post at the moment, i always looked at Oscar’s picture. What a lovely tribute to a very good boi.
Oh my! I am teary eyed! We lost several canine family members of the years and they are still in our hearts!❤️
I’m very to read about your loss of Oscar. Your tribute was lovely.
Oh Beth I am so sorry for your loss.
Losing a pet is losing a family member. Many of us have been in your position and it’s never easy. You have many wonderful memories of your time with Oscar. When you are able maybe you could share them with us on “Fridays with Oscar”. I have been with you since the beginning and I remember how adorable he was as a puppy.
I am sending much love, hugs and prayers for peace for you.
Hey Beth, try to gather strength and peace in your heart with Oscar’s passing, as the memories of him will live on forever. Occasionally you’ll catch yourself laughing at some goofy circumstance reminding you of him.
Take care, Nancy
My heart hurts for you. I know what it is like to lose such a wonderful friend, companion, love. They fill our hearts with love, and they take a part of our hearts when they leave us. May you be filled with the wonderful memories of your special friend and companion. I read your post with tears running down my face. Thinking of you (and Ollie).
Much love, Arna
What a wonderful dog. What a loss. I think our animals are sent by God to show us just how much we can love and we are better for it. But it hurts so bad when they have to leave.
I so looked forward to his photos and always showed them to my husband. Oscar often made us both laugh. He brought so much joy to many.
Glad you have Oliie to help you through this.
I remember very well those first photos of Oscar as a puppy – those big, floppy ears! He was a special link between you and Mr Style and now he (Oscar) has gone to continue that chain in pastures beyond here where Mr Style awaits. Yes, it’s a desperately sad time for you and yours, but please take comfort in knowing that while he gave you amazing companionship, you gave him an amazing life. He was as lucky having you as an owner as you were in having him by your side.
Hugs from Middle England.
Dear Beth,
I’m so sorry to hear of beloved Oscar’s passing. I have no doubt you and your family gave him the best home and love. I will miss seeing him but I have pinned a few of my favorite pictures of him.💕
Such a heartbreak to lose our beloved animal companions!
Dearest Beth, I am so sorry that you have lost your sweet Oscar. Unfortunately the price of love is loss, but love never dies. The best place to bury a beloved pet is in your heart, where he will always be.
Pets have a way of crawling into our hearts and setting up camp.. their loyalty is unwavering and unconditional.. I am so sorry for your loss😢
Aw Beth, I’m so very sorry to hear of Oscar’s passing. We’ve loved and lost 5 pets and share your heartbreak. Your tribute to your sweet boy was a beautiful testament of the bond we share with our fur babies.
Beth, I’m so sorry. There are not sufficient words to ease your pain. I will be praying for you that the LORD will comfort your heart
Dear Beth, I am so sorry you have lost Oscar. Your tribute to him is beautifully written.
Ooooo I remember those perky puppy ears and if I am being perfectly honest I never missed a Fridays with Oscar post. My heart goes out to you as pets are family and the grief we feel so real and deep ! Hugs!
I’m so sorry about your precious Oscar. I lost my fur baby Hope this week as well. My heart aches so much and I’m sure yours does too.
I am so deeply sorry for your tremendous loss. I love seeing Oscar and Ollie! They are such a comfort to us and brighten our days. I hope you can find comfort in your precious memories.
Making an ordinary day extraordinary! That was your sweet boy Oscar! So sorry for this heartbreaking loss Beth. But, oh those precious memories!
Beth, so sorry to hear about Oscar. I looked forward to seeing pictures of him on Fridays. Pets bring so much love and joy to our lives. Dogs have unconditional love for us. I know how you feel, we lost our sweet Izzy last Christmas Eve. Had her for almost 15 years. Still miss her each day.
Thinking of you 🫶🏻
These times are so contradictory – grateful for all the moments, heartbroken that have come to an end. Forever in our hearts. Big hugs to you, Beth.
Oh, Beth. I’m holding a special place in my heart for you and those who knew Oscar best. Don’t be surprised if he crosses the Rainbow Bridge once in a while to check up on you. He lived well, loved his people, and is missed by so many. Take care. Jan
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I lost my 11 year old yellow lab, Buddy, in May. When my husband passed in 2017, Buddy was who I came home to every day. He filled up my home with such a loving, loyal presence. Always by my side. He, too, helped my grieving. Since he has been gone, my home is so empty, so quiet (even though he never barked). I still wake up in the middle of the night and feel him in bed next to me.
So sorry for your loss of Oscar. That is the hardest thing, to lose a fur baby. Prayers for comfort for you.
Dear Beth, I cried as I read your wonderful tribute to your beloved Oscar. He was a noble, beautiful, gentle boy and your best friend and companion…it showed in all his pictures. Thank you for sharing him on Fridays. Take comfort in Ollie. She knows you are hurting, and she is missing Oscar too. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Oh Beth, I grieve with you as I sit on my sofa reading this my eyes welling up with tears. I have been with you since the beginning and understand your grief. My sweet Hermione (cat) died last year and I’m still not over it but with our pets, I don’t think we ever get over them. They have such personalities.
So sorry for your loss. Pets are like family and they are so hard to say goodbye when we know we have to. They remain in our memories forever.
So sad to hear of the loss of your faithful friend and companion…Thank you for sharing him with us in your posts and pics. Praying you have peace and comfort during this grieving process and that Oscar’s memories will always stay close in your heart.🙏
Dear Beth, I am SO heartbroken to hear the news about your sweet boy. I felt like I knew him. I know he is up there running around and introducing himself to my beautiful Springer and Brittany. They are such a part of our heart and soul. When they leave us, our heart and soul is ripped to pieces. I’m thinking about you and sending you love and strength from Bluffton, SC.
Oh Beth, I’m so, so sad to hear about your beloved Oscar. Shepherd just have a special way about them!!! You were the best GS mom to Oscar. May your memories of Oscar carry you through the days ahead as you navigate his loss. Hugs to you from another German Shepherd mom!
My prayers and love to you. I am so sad that Oscar is no longer with you. He was so handsome and Fridays with him and Ollie were always my favorite. I grieved for Mr. Style, and I will grieve for Oscar. Thank you for sharing him with us all these years.
Oh Beth, I am so sorry to read this. I remember when you got Oscar and he was always such a bright point in your blog and social media content. Sending you love and strength.
Dear Beth,
I come to you softly and tenderly and wrapping loving arms around you at a time when my words fall short.
What a beautifully heart felt tribute you shared with us with your life story from beginning til the end with your fur baby, Oscar. As you know when an animal decides to trust and then love you that is when your relationship really begins. Their eyes meet yours and the love, attachment, caring for one another is sealed.
Oscar and you were the best trusted friends. You knew one another what more could you ever ask for.
Our last passing of our Romeo and Juliet (Birmans-cats) left a huge hole in my heart. Romeo lived for 19 years. He passed in 2010 and I still miss him terribly. He slept with me every night. He knew to stay away from my hubs, it was not always easy to sleep with him because of his loud purring.
I will miss seeing Oscar, I could tell he seemed like a loving, kind, compassionate dog and adored you.
As you go through all the days, weeks, months, years ahead the memories of unconditional love will hopefully ease and start to mend your heart a day at a time.
You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Beautiful tribute
My very deepest condolences…
till you meet again..
I’m so sad to hear the news about your precious fur baby. Sending hugs and comforting thoughts.
I am so sad for your loss. I had a little mutt for16 years. She has been gone many years but she left me so many happy memories. I always looked forward to Fri with Oscar . He always had a way about him. I know you are broken hearted my thoughts are with you and those who loved him.
I am so sorry to hear about Oscar’s passing…… you are a wonderful writer and I feel like I knew him through all you have shared about him. You are right, animals know just what we need and they take such good care of us! Take care, know that we are all here for you , we are so sorry for your loss.
Hello Beth,
What sad news you brought today, Oscar was just the best friend to have around, bringing joy not only to you, but your family both at home and around the world.
Sending you the biggest squishiest hug. 🥰🤗
Love Sally
Oh, Beth I am so very sorry to read of your loss. You wrote such a beautiful tribute to him. You are such a gifted writer. I have been worried about Oscar as you have discussed his decline. It is so painful to lose our pets, but especially one that has helped you through enormous grief. I will miss Fridays with Oscar, which was one of my favorite segments. I hope you feel the love and support of all your followers. Sending prayers and hugs. 🥰🙏
I am so sorry that Oscar has gone. Your love and devotion to him was so evident in your many posts. The next while will be hard. Your community are with you. I have been blessed with a wonderful labradoodle who was a source of great comfort when our daughter passed away. Oscar was there when you needed him, never asking only giving. His memory and love is with you always.
I’m a fellow dog lover and have tears rolling down my cheeks reading Oscar’s story. I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend.
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. Oscar was a beautiful fellow and it was always lovely to read of his escapades.
Sending hugs.
Beth, I am just so sorry to hear your sad news about Oscar and my heart goes out to you.
Thinking of you and sending love and hugs your way.
Take care.
I’m sitting here with tears running down my face. Anyone who has ever loved a pet can understand your absolutely beautiful tribute to Oscar. I’m so sorry for your loss but so glad you had the time with him. Keep those memories forever.
So very sorry for your loss of beloved Oscar. What a beautiful life he had with you! Thank you for sharing him with your readers. May you be comforted with your sweet memories of your handsome Oscar.
I am so sorry for your loss but have loved every Friday with Oscar!! Thank you for bringing him to us made every Outfit perfection!
So sorry for your loss of Oscar. I enjoyed the Fridays with Oscar and will miss him. Remember the good times and the fun you had with him. Dogs are a wonderful comfort and blessing to us all.
I’m so sorry. This is so sad. Thank you for sharing the beautiful memories.
Dear Beth! We will all miss Oscar! Somehow I knew that he was your comfort and strength when you lost Mr. Style! I’m so glad that you had Oscar to share your life with! I could always tell how much you loved him! 💕
Beth,
Having recently faced the same sorrows with the loss of our old dog, Eli, my heart chest for you. I have no doubt Oscar and Mr Style are enjoying their time together, watching over you and their loved ones. Be good and kind to yourself. This was such a beautiful tribute to your sweet Oscar.
Oh, Beth, I’m so sorry for your loss, and this was a beautiful love letter to Oscar. Our furry loves certainly leave a hole in our lives when they go, but the love they give us and the gifts they leave behind are worth it. I wish you peace and healing.
TRULY SORRY FOR YOU LOSING YOUR OSCAR TO HEAVEN SO SOON. I HAVE HAD THE EXPERIENCE IN RAISING DOGS FOR 39 YEARS. GOD BLESS YOU FOR THE CHANG IN YOUR LIFE.
So sorry for the loss of your furry friend. I lost my golden – Gunny, three years ago and still miss him every day.
Losing a pet you shared with your husband must feel like losing your husband a second time. I found it’s best to live your grieving life side by side with the life your create going forward. My husband died in 2021. I moved to Florida in 2022 and started the grief process over again. I did find that I could feel sad and enjoy swimming in the winter, etc.. You create such beauty for your readers. Please continue to do so as you mourn Oscar. I believe side by side is the best way to live our later years.
Beth,
I was so sad to read this post. I’m truly sorry for the loss you are feeling and will continue to work through. It was a joy to see Oscar and hear about his life with you. Sending blessings your way.
I am so sorry to hear of Oscar’s passing. I have followed him over the years and loved his presence on your blog. I know how it is to lose a loving pet friend. You have my deepest sympathy. Oscar will be missed by me and many others.
I’ve followed you for years through the loss of Mr. Styles and now the loss of your precious Oscar. We don’t know each other but your words have touched my heart and dampened my eyes. I send you hugs and I admire your strength. Wendy
Dear Beth,
No words more beautiful than this tribute to Oscar. I so understand all the grief. My husband going to heaven (one year after Mr. Style) and leaving me and 3 beautiful Labrador retrievers. All his hunting girls and our best friends. The last one left to greet my husband one year ago and it was the saddest day all over again.
Since then Ginger, a Fox red lab has become my best girl. I always say I would never be where I am in my grief journey if it wasn’t for our dogs. They are truly supportive to us.
Oscar was a beautiful and extremely special boy. I will most definitely miss seeing him but I’m happy to hear “Fridays with Oscar” will live on in his memory.
Peace to you Beth 💕
Beautiful tribute Beth! I always enjoyed the photos of you with Oscar. I am very sorry for your loss. I know he will be missed by you and your family enormously. The hardest part of being a pet owner is losing them.
I am owned by a dog also. I have noticed in the photos how the “sugar” increased on Oscar’s face. I am sorry for your loss but feel it’s true that he was well loved and loved well.
I’m crying just reading your post. I’m so sorry for your loss. I like to think that our beloved pets will meet us again in the fullness of time. Love never dies. Thank you for sharing Oscar with us. I’m sending a hug from VA.
I am so sorry to read about the loss of your dog. It is not an easy thing. Sending virtual hugs
Hello Beth, I have been a faithful follower for years. I have witnessed so many pictures you write about with your special Oscar. Pets are more than a four legged fur ball that takes residence with us. They are family, and when one passes, we mourn them just as we would a family member. The joy and companionship they provide us is one to be cherished. Please know my heart hurts for your loss. Hugs to you as you mourn his passing but celebrate the companionship you shared.
Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss. I always looked forward to Friday and seeing Oscar and Ollie. You could tell he was a good boy! Someday I also hope to see all my fur and feather babies over the rainbow bridge,
Beth, your thoughtfully-expressed tribute totally honors beautiful Oscar in the best way. You and all of us who’ve lost pets deserve grace and a huge hug. Warmest thoughts your way.
Wonderful testament to your “boy”.
Understand completely from someone who shares the grief of a loss of a pet,my Afghan hound and my partner in the years gone by.
But we go forward for them and us and you keep doing that Beth and you will find your way along another path all more richer for the love you had with them.
RIP Oscar xxx
Hi Beth, Your title caught my eye and I thought to myself, “It can’t be true!” Fridays with Oscar is my favorite post of the week. Oscar and Ollie add so much warmth to your blog. I have followed you since about 2017, and found you because of Talbots. I love the Classics, but you are so much more than that. Thanks for sharing your sad news as well as your happy times. I will miss Oscar’s soulful eyes in your posts. Hugs to you, Joanie from Iowa
Oh Beth, I feel your pain so vividly. Our 19 year old cat crossed that Rainbow Bridge right before Thanksgiving, and, while I celebrate her healing, it left a hole in my heart and our home that I have not filled. I am thankful for the snuggles, for the funny stories – and there are sooo many over 19 years! – and the constant company from our Lucy! The memories, like yours of Oscar, are precious. Hugs to you!
Dear Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss. Oscar was a beautiful handsome boy. Thanks for sharing all of his pictures through the years. I had tears in my eyes, a pet is truly a sole mate forever.
Peace and Love
Rosanne
I’m crying all over again. Gosh I loved great big beautiful bestest boy. Honored to have been trained by him to fetch his bully sticks on command and to know such an amazing dog-mom like yourself! You, Kelly, and animal lovers alike make the world a better place. From Oscar, than YOU for giving him so much love and such an amazing life <3 Xo, Jess
Dear Beth —
I am so sorry for the loss of Oscar. Pets become members of our families and it sounds like Oscar was both a friend and family to you.
Beth my deepest sympathy on the loss of your beautiful boy Oscar. I burst into tears when I started to read your post. Our pets are members of our families who give us unconditional love and solace. Keeping thoughts of you and Oscar in my heart.
I am so sorry you lost Oscar. Every time I lose a beloved pet, I remind myself there are years of mostly joy and a much shorter period of difficulty and loss. Dogs are worth it. It is the price we pay for the blessing of having them in our lives.
the most beautiful goodbye ever
will miss you Oscar!
Dear Beth.
I’ve just read your email and I’m very sad to hear that your beloved Oscar has passed away🌈🐕.
I have been a fan of Fridays for Oscar, I like cocktails, I like the pictures of your house, everything. I’ve only been part of this community for about four years now, but it’s become an important part of my life.
This is so sad, and I want to share my deepest regrets with you from far away Switzerland.
Losing a pet is not easy, but I hope your family, your granddaughters and also your wonderful cat support you through those difficult times.
A warm hug from across the ocean, kindest regards, Sandra.
I am so sorry. I will miss Oscar .😞 I hope you’ll show some of his pics once in awhile. A beautiful furry friend 🫶🏻Love and prayers!
Beth, I am truly heart broken for you💔. Oscar was not only your partner but your business associate! His loving presence was felt throughout every photo. Oscar always looked like your very proud sidekick. May you cherish each and every memory and keep them close to your heart!
Anne Polhemus
Farewell, dear Oscar. May the wind be always in your tail.
What a beautifully written tribute. I am so sorry you lost your faithful friend. How wonderful you had him when you needed him most and that he knew. You gave him a wonderful life.
Oh Beth, my heart just aches for you. As a fellow dog owner, I have experienced the bond we share with our precious pups as well as the terrible loss. Reading your tribute to precious Oscar, you described so beautifully what he brought to your life. He was your constant, every day, the most loyal friend who spent his life devoted to you. Oscar lived a beautiful life, with you and your family, so very loved. You’ll see him again, with Mr. Style.
So sorry for your loss..time is too short with our furbabies, hardest part of having a dog is the good bye.
So so sorry for your loss with Oscar’s passing. He was truly a dog with style!
Dear Beth
So sad to hear of your beloved Oscar’s
passing .
Praying you find peace in your heart .
💜🙏
Truly sorry you lost your wonderful Oscar. We will miss him and I know you will.
Hugs, Rebecca
Ohhhhh, crying for you and anyone who has lost a dear pet. They are the little extra love we didn’t know we needed. Life fills in but there is an unspoken pain that never goes away. I still feel it today and my Colby has been gone 11 years. They are as unique as a human and we morn them as a great loss. God bless you.
Beth, your heartfelt message about the loss of your sweet Oscar touched me more than you know. Our beloved beagle, SKYE crossed the rainbow bridge in September ; it was a peaceful crossing, and for that we are grateful, but you are right. The hole in
Our hearts remains. Thank you for the reminder of the joy that our pets bring to our lives. I wish you peace in this challenging time.
I’ve watched Oscar from the first post-puppy to a dear white face. You have my sincere condolences.
I’m so sorry about your sweet Oscar.
Oh Beth, I am so very sorry but understand completely.
I was living next to my mom when her husband of 40 years died and although my 2 rescued dogs “visited Grammy” they came home at night. After he died, my lab/chow girl went to live with Grammy and slept where her husband had. She would visit me but always went “home” to be with Grammy, knowing she needed her more.
Losing our pets is heartbreaking. You are so lucky to have so many happy memories. I will raise a glass to Oscar tonight at dinner. May he live in peace with Mr. Style.
Beth, sorry but just seeing this sadness! I am so sorry to hear about Oscar! What a handsome and good boy he was and he will always live in your hearts!! Many blessings to you and your family!