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My January Reading List: The Books That’ll Actually Change Your Year! 📚✨

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The best January reads support fresh starts without adding pressure. Look for books about sustainable habits, intentional living, and self-compassion—not extreme transformations or unrealistic resolutions that fade by February.

7 Books on My January Reading List

Cover of Atomic Habits by James Clear

1. For Building Habits That Actually Stick

Atomic Habits by James Clear


This is the habit-building bible for good reason. Clear breaks down why tiny changes compound into remarkable results and provides a practical framework for building good habits and breaking bad ones. Unlike other habit books that feel overwhelming, this one is actionable and realistic. I reread sections of this every January to reset my approach to daily routines.

Why it works for January: It’s optimistic without being preachy, practical without being rigid. Perfect for the person who wants to improve without subscribing to hustle culture or extreme self-optimization.

Key takeaway: You don’t need massive change to see results—focus on getting 1% better every day instead of trying to overhaul your entire life overnight.

2. For Permission to Rest and Reset

Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times by Katherine May


This beautiful meditation on the seasons of our lives explores how “wintering”—those fallow periods of rest and withdrawal—are essential for growth and renewal. May writes about grief, burnout, and the necessity of slowing down with such warmth and wisdom that reading it feels like permission to stop hustling and just be.

Why it works for January: January can feel like it demands immediate productivity and transformation. This book gently reminds you that rest and reflection are productive too.

Key takeaway: Winter—literal and metaphorical—isn’t something to rush through. It’s necessary preparation for the growth that comes later.

Cover of Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times by Katherine May
Cover of Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown

3. For Intentional Living Without Overwhelm

Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown


McKeown’s philosophy is simple: do less, but better. This book teaches you how to identify what’s truly essential in your life and eliminate everything else—not through time management hacks, but through clarity about your priorities. It’s the antidote to overscheduling and saying yes to everything.

Why it works for January: New Year often brings pressure to add more—more goals, more habits, more commitments. This book helps you subtract instead, creating space for what actually matters.

Key takeaway: If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will. Learning to say no is how you say yes to what’s essential.

4. For Self-Compassion and Inner Work

The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown


Brown’s research on vulnerability, shame, and worthiness feels especially relevant in January when we’re bombarded with messages about self-improvement and becoming “better.” This book offers a different path: wholehearted living through self-compassion, authenticity, and letting go of perfectionism.

Why it works for January: It counters diet culture, hustle culture, and every other message telling you you’re not enough as you are. You can want to grow and improve while also accepting yourself completely.

Key takeaway: Worthiness doesn’t have prerequisites. You are worthy of love and belonging exactly as you are, not as you’ll be when you achieve all your goals.

Cover of The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown
Cover of Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert

5. For Creativity and Creative Living

Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert


Gilbert’s manifesto on creativity isn’t just for artists—it’s for anyone who wants to live with more curiosity, courage, and playfulness. She demystifies the creative process and gives you permission to pursue what interests you without needing to monetize it, perfect it, or justify it.

Why it works for January: New Year is when many people want to start creative projects they’ve been putting off. This book removes the fear and pressure, making creativity feel accessible and joyful instead of intimidating.

Key takeaway: You don’t need to be “a creative person” to live creatively. Curiosity and courage matter more than talent.

6. For Better Relationships and Communication

How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen by David Brooks


Brooks explores what it means to truly know another person—and to be known yourself—in an age of shallow connections and performative relationships. It’s about curiosity, empathy, and the skills of deep listening and genuine presence. Reading it made me more intentional about my conversations and relationships.

Why it works for January: Fresh starts aren’t just about personal habits—they’re also about how we show up in relationships. This book helps you deepen connections instead of just adding more surface-level interactions.

Key takeaway: Being a good friend, partner, or family member requires skills you can learn and practice. Seeing people deeply is an art worth cultivating.

Cover art for audiobook How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen by David Brooks
Cover of The Book of Delights by Ross Gay

7. For Joy and Perspective

The Book of Delights by Ross Gay


Gay spent a year writing daily essays about things that delighted him—from a perfect tomato to a stranger’s kindness. The result is a joyful, generous book that trains your brain to notice beauty and delight in ordinary moments. It’s the perfect antidote to January gloom and resolution pressure.

Why it works for January: When everything feels heavy and serious—new goals, fresh starts, self-improvement—this book reminds you that joy and delight are productive and important too.

Key takeaway: Noticing delight is a practice. The more you look for it, the more you find it, and the richer your daily life becomes.

Why I’m Reading These Books in January

January often brings intense pressure to transform, optimize, and hustle toward new goals. These books offer a different path: sustainable habits instead of extreme makeovers, self-compassion instead of self-criticism, intentional living instead of doing more. They’re the perfect companions for the person who wants to grow and improve while also being kind to themselves—which is exactly the balance January needs.

Mini Formula: Creating a January Reading Routine

Morning pages + coffee:
Read a chapter from Atomic Habits or Essentialism while you drink your coffee. Apply one idea to your day.

Midday reset:
Keep The Book of Delights on your desk. Read one essay when you need a mental break or perspective shift.

Evening wind-down:
Read Wintering or Big Magic before bed. End your day with reflection and inspiration instead of scrolling.

Weekend deep dive:
Choose a longer book like How to Know a Person or The Gifts of Imperfection for Saturday or Sunday afternoon reading sessions.

Mini FAQ

Should I read all these books in January?

Absolutely not—unless you want to. The goal isn’t to add “read seven books” to your January to-do list. Choose one or two that speak to what you need right now. Maybe you need habit support (start with Atomic Habits). Maybe you need permission to rest (try Wintering). Maybe you need joy (The Book of Delights). Let your actual needs guide you, not an arbitrary reading goal.

Are audiobooks okay or should I read physical books?

Whatever format you’ll actually use. I listen to audiobooks while cooking, folding laundry, or walking the dog. I read physical books in the evenings. E-books work great for travel. The format doesn’t matter—consuming the content does.

What if I start a book and don’t like it?

Put it down. Life’s too short to finish books you’re not enjoying out of obligation. Give it 50 pages, and if it’s not working, move on. You can always return to it later if your mood or needs change.

How do I make time to read in January when I’m busy?

You don’t “find” time—you create it by making reading a priority. Replace 20 minutes of scrolling with reading. Listen to audiobooks during your commute or while doing chores. Read before bed instead of watching TV. Small pockets of time add up quickly.

✨ Beth’s Take: Why I Choose Books Over Resolutions

I used to make elaborate New Year’s resolutions—fitness plans, productivity systems, complete life overhauls—that would last approximately two weeks before collapsing under their own weight. Then I started choosing a few books to read in January instead.

Books don’t demand immediate transformation. They offer ideas, perspectives, and frameworks you can absorb gradually and apply as they resonate. Reading Atomic Habits changed how I approach daily routines—not overnight, but slowly, as I experimented with the concepts. Wintering gave me permission to rest during a year when I desperately needed it. Essentialism helped me quit commitments that drained me and say yes to what mattered.

These books became mentors, guides, and companions through January’s darkness and pressure. They didn’t add to my to-do list—they helped me think differently about the lists I already had. And unlike resolutions that felt like punishment for not being good enough, these books felt like invitations to grow at my own pace with compassion and curiosity.

Now every January, I choose a small stack of books that address where I actually am, not where I think I should be. This year, I need habit support, creative encouragement, and reminders to rest. These seven books provide exactly that—no gym membership or meal plan required.

Cozy, Intentional Rituals

For more on creating cozy, intentional reading rituals, check out Books, Tea, and Style: The Perfect Trio for a Cozy and Chic Life—it covers everything from creating a reading nook to pairing tea with your current book for the ultimate self-care experience.

Seasonal Reading Inspiration

Looking for seasonal book recommendations beyond January? Browse my Smart, Stylish Summer Reads for Women Over 50 and Your Cozy Fall Reading List—both feature some of my favorite books from 2025 organized by season and mood.

Closing Thoughts

Build Your January Reading List

The right books make January feel less like a sprint toward perfection and more like a gentle invitation to grow. Choose one or two from this list that speak to where you are right now, and give yourself permission to read at your own pace without pressure or deadlines. That’s the real fresh start.

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